PPD?how to help? "Paranoid Personality Disorder

I do believe my husband has this issue.PPD i want to help him "us" get help ..cause is so amazing in millions of ways.and did make my life so much better.ive never ever cheated on him even when we were friends hanging out all the time.i even went on national TV and passed a polygraph test 4 times with high high points.same points all 4 times .. he believes the on 0.5 of my xanax i took 6 hours before my polygraph test made me beat the test .. and the guy "dan" catches people ALL the time trying to beat test doing just that...but my husband still believes i beat this famout guy with over 20 years experience..he thinks im that good...but i have never ever even sent a wrongful text wanting to cheat in anyway..like im so so in love with him.i could never do such a thing.i really couldn't..i know i never will.i know mental illness is in his family he was secluded as a child.a teen who still had to play in the yard..and there was physical and mental abuse.i still see the mental abuse.his parents and other family try yo keep control of him.his mom could just fall into tears and name all shes done in the past for him..aand he is immediately manipulated ...but i show him and i did get him to see the manipulation and he realizes alot.that was a great start.now i want to get him to marriage counseling..i married him sick or not.i will not walk away .. i want to really help him live a happier life.hes so amazing works so hard..has the skills to make much more money..but he will work his tail end off..he can do anything..and i love it.i love a million things about him..but i wanna see him happier.i think he would consider help but i know telling someone u know what's wrong and u are willing to help them get help..doesnt always go well..so please anyone who knows how i csn get this going.the sooner the better ..i want this man to see he has a woman that will never and has never betrayed or been unloyal and would jump in front of a bullet for him..the worst part is ME knowing ive always been 100 percent loyal all this time and him thinking im 1 percent loyal.....its painful to see him go thru pain i that doesnt have to be ..it hurts me so much i have no words...

Hello jmrm: I see this is your first post here on PC. So... welcome to PsychCentral! I hope you find the time you spend here to be of benefit.

I'm sorry your husband is having such a difficult time. But it is wonderful that he has a wife who is as completely committed to his welfare as you are. Here are links to some articles, from PsychCentral's archives, that may be of some help... the first 2 by our host Dr. John Grohol, Psy.D.:

https://psychcentral.com/lib/helping...et-help/?all=1

https://psychcentral.com/lib/helping...ealth-concern/

https://psychcentral.com/blog/how-to...essional-help/

https://psychcentral.com/lib/helping...ntal-disorder/

https://psychcentral.com/lib/15-ways...illness/?all=1

https://psychcentral.com/disorders/p...lity-disorder/

https://psychcentral.com/disorders/p...der/treatment/

https://psychcentral.com/blog/11-way...-denial/?all=1

My best wishes to you both...

Thank You for the links.i will surely be reading in to them.i am new to this site but i really need the support..sometimes i get really aggravated..i did 13 + years theropy..i have anxiety depression myself.although i have learned to cope i still have my moments where i am weak..i used to have really bad panic attacks about everyday..so i know mental health issues and i know they are nothing to be ashamed of...its worse to hide from what will always find u..i have trust issues so id rather get support where my husband and i are unknown..im not one to put my marriage out in the streets ..people can surely be ugly and gossip badly.not everyone is out to help each other ..most will ACT like they care when u confide ..are there other people that i csn get advice from.what did they do?thanks