Tired of this

She's not to be trusted because she has betrayed me in the past that affected my mental health.

Anyway, I'm not sure how to say this. But she only ever comes past when she's sick. Like her mother and brother.

Months can go past and she only wants to see me when she's not well, as if to say "if I've got it, I'll pass it to you.

I used to think it was just a coincidence and me being paranoid on weed etc.. but I don't smoke anymore.

I haven't smoked in a while and you guessed it. She comes over all sick and at first I thought nothing of it this time because of her absence in my life since I told her not to treat me like a shoulder to cry on, because I've got serious health concerns to be bothered by her whining about her trip to the postal office, believe me that's no exaggeration just to get sympathy.

The thing that really annoys me is that I've mentioned this ' scheduled visiting knowing well enough that I've got a poor immune system.

I was thinking it must of been my diet , medication etc that was making me feel really bad the last 4 days.

But what I can't explain is if she's doing this on purpose (she has that superstitious, anti-doctors) backwards attitude) just like her mother and brother.

They're the type of jealous and gossip about everything family.

Why do they only come past when they are not well?! She reminds me of a guy I used to work with and he was just as much of a sadist as her.

The last time this happened was when I was staying in hospital and got got so emotionally drained that I gave her the bird and I thank my stars because sh avoided me for almost a year..even though I felt guilty for doing it.

The thing is, how do I make her leave me completely alone from her ways without upsetting her mother (my mother's sister)?

A part of my mind thinks I owe her from borrowing $20 so far back that I could have bought shares to IBM..yep that long ago, but I will never pay her back based on the principle that she's my 1st cousin, but I haven't had a problem burning a $100 note...yes I we high, but wanted to prove to others that even being broke, it's only one problem

Regards,
Boiled Crap

If there's anything good about depression (for me, at least) it's that I isolate when I'm feeling poorly & don't spread my problems on to others. The woman you're describing sounds like a real emotional vampire. I'd make my feelings clear so she'll stop dumping her toxic stuff in your lap. Kick her to the curb.

BTW, stop signing off as "Boiled Crap," because you're certainly not, dude.