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Jun 26, 2018 at 02:55 AM
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I thought long distance relationship will make our love stronger, but it didn’t. It only broke me slowly into pieces. When my boyfriend was acting cold, I thought it was just for a show. He used to do that when I’m busy at work and seldom pays attention to him. I was wrong. When he stood three days without communicating with me, I know in my heart that there was something wrong. I ignored the idea though. I just thought he was mad at me. He really was but he had another activity going on. One of our common friends told me he saw my boyfriend with different Peru ladies in the club, malls or restaurants. I broke up with him then. I did not need to hear any explanation coming from him since it’s as clear as crystal that he wanted the same thing too. I always doubted my worth since then. Until now, I can’t accept the fact that he was able to throw away our almost 4 years ride. I always found myself crying every night. I needed an explanation but I don’t want to look desperate in front of him. Is there anything else I can do to ease the pain?
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Jun 26, 2018 at 11:57 AM
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Hello brokenAF: I see this is your first post here on PC. So... welcome to PsychCentral!
 I hope you find PC to be of benefit.  I'm sorry you are dealing with the aftermath of this sad experience.  Here are links to some articles, from PsychCentral's archives, on the subject of how to mend a broken heart: https://psychcentral.com/blog/10-tip...-broken-heart/ https://psychcentral.com/blog/12-way...dium=popular17 https://psychcentral.com/blog/how-to...dium=popular17 https://psychcentral.com/blog/how-to...dium=popular17 https://psychcentral.com/blog/how-to...dium=popular17 https://blogs.psychcentral.com/chang...-broken-heart/ https://psychcentral.com/blog/try-th...-broken-heart/ https://psychcentral.com/blog/unpack...our-body-heal/ https://psychcentral.com/blog/learni...dium=popular17 One additional forum, here on PC, that may be of interest to you would be the coping with emotions forum. Here's a link: https://forums.psychcentral.com/coping-emotions/ My best wishes to you... 
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