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Jun 30, 2018 at 03:58 AM
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Leading I know, but I recently went thru a breakup, one I sort of saw coming.
Should I cancel her & her sisters AAA, that I am paying for, now that she has left. She cheated on me, when I found out and confirmed it, it floored me and 2 weeks later she moved out. I have canceled my old FB account, changed my number so she just can't reach out whenever and open old wounds, like she did a couple of weeks ago. Thoughts please? __________________ Simply Shattered |
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Jun 30, 2018 at 05:47 AM
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Do you get a refund or partial years credit? Is it worth your time and energy to call them? It makes sense if you do.
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Jun 30, 2018 at 05:55 AM
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Yes I'll get a 8 or 9 month refund
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Jun 30, 2018 at 06:47 AM
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Uhh, well, yeah. You no longer have any sort of obligation to this lady, absolutely no reason you should keep paying for her AAA. If it ended on good terms and you wanted to be helpful until she got on her own two feet, then sure I could see it, but that's not the case for you.
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Jun 30, 2018 at 08:06 AM
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Yes, it's time to stop the payments now. Let her know if you like, but sever all the ties so all you have is the emotions and the memories to deal with. Begin the healing process. Those are my thoughts and hang in there please. Sorry you're going through a rough time.
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Jul 03, 2018 at 01:39 PM
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regardless of the cheating, the fact that you're not together anymore kind of makes sense that you'd cut off things that you paid for that were there because you were together. even in an amicable break up, I think you stop being financially responsible for anything you agreed to when you were together. simple as that. All of the stuff related to feelings and being cheated on, being hurt should not weigh in at all, for or against doing this. Its a matter of that you simply are not a couple anymore. |
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Jul 03, 2018 at 02:10 PM
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Paid for her sister? Yeah I’d cancel but if it’s on their babe not yours. It might be hard to cancel. Hm
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Jul 09, 2018 at 06:19 AM
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AAA canceled it without any issues.
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