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Location: England
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My Dad, he was by no means the world's worst, he just never was able to connect and obsessed with his own issues, sucks at being self-aware and just was more of a little brother than any sort of father. I have tried to forgive and move past him while guarding myself from him, but he brings it all back up again.
It's not like I can move to another country or town, my parents helped me buy my house in the first place - another reason I feel guilty about him. He has never been any sort of a Dad and I want to forgive and move past him, get on with my life. I just can't though |
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MickeyCheeky, mote.of.soul
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I can actually relate in some part Does this makes you feel guilty as well?
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ya so much so, he's a very intensely loving and passionate man, who refuses to be self aware or see the world outside his environmental causes and claptrap
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refuses- well I don't know if that's right, he certainly has refused to conform
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I still don't know how to handle it though
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Do you have a Therapist that can help you process what your dealing with?
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