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Default Aug 06, 2018 at 03:22 AM
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Not sure if this is the right place but here goes - I’m on vacation (Hawaii) I know I shouldn’t complain but I’ve come down with the flu and have started to cancel everything I had planned. Tomorrow I’m supposed to go on a boat tour around the island but I’m using the excuse that I shouldn’t infect everybody on the boat - so I’m thinking on not showing up. Now am I being reasonable or am I just trying to runaway. I may end up spending my whole time in paradise watching TV - this is a dilemma. I have to remind you that I’m not young and maybe I should just rest. Thanks
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Default Aug 06, 2018 at 04:01 AM
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Probably not under Relationships and Communication - possibly health.

If you're concerned about going, you can always excuse yourself to rest.
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Default Aug 06, 2018 at 04:03 AM
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How bad is the flu?
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How bad is the flu?
Not good - hacking a lot 🤧
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Default Aug 06, 2018 at 10:14 AM
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If you have a flu and throwing up, it’s very wise to not go on
a boat tour. It is hopefully a short type of flu and you’ll be ok soon
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Default Aug 06, 2018 at 10:56 AM
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Being rational.

I hope that you feel better.
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Default Aug 06, 2018 at 12:34 PM
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Not sure if this is the right place but here goes - I’m on vacation (Hawaii) I know I shouldn’t complain but I’ve come down with the flu and have started to cancel everything I had planned. Tomorrow I’m supposed to go on a boat tour around the island but I’m using the excuse that I shouldn’t infect everybody on the boat - so I’m thinking on not showing up. Now am I being reasonable or am I just trying to runaway. I may end up spending my whole time in paradise watching TV - this is a dilemma. I have to remind you that I’m not young and maybe I should just rest. Thanks
not something anyone here really can say as to what your motivation and intent is. But I will say that having the flu and not wanting to go out is a legitimate reason. Whether or not you have made that excuse for that reason or you have ulterior motives is a question you have to answer for yourself.
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Default Aug 06, 2018 at 02:00 PM
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Give yourself a day. No point possibly spreading the stuff.

I think it’s a legit reason to cancel.

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Default Aug 06, 2018 at 03:10 PM
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If you're that sick, I can guarantee getting on a boat won't make it any better.
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Default Aug 07, 2018 at 10:25 PM
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I know it’s Hawaii and I shouldn’t be feeling sorry for myself. However, there is a strange feeling of a walking sort of death that’s come over me. I’ve always been able to rally to a situation and try to make an adventure out of it. This time I failed to really get out there and it’s an eerie sort of paralysis. Too dramatic, probably and I am sick but I just didn’t have any spark this time and I don’t know how to breathe anymore.... peace
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Default Aug 07, 2018 at 11:22 PM
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When you get sick, you get sick. Be gentle on yourself. It's just a measly virus(I hope and not bacterial because bacterial is really really bad). It's quite a story to tell...went to Hawaii and all I got was this lousy t-shirt as I got stricken down with an ailment while there...type of story.
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Default Aug 07, 2018 at 11:23 PM
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My opinion is to not draw any conclusions about yourself from what you do or what you feel when you are sick.
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Default Aug 08, 2018 at 06:56 AM
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Just being overly dramatic due to a missed opportunity - funny but I’m still trying to impress that invisible somebody 👍
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