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#21
Perhaps you need to ask her how she feels about respecting her body sexually, and tell her what you went through at 15 lying to your parents, and open up all the communications so if she feels unsure or pressured by anyone, she already has some answers of her own up her sleeve?
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I once forbade my son from staying over his cousin's one weekend. I forget specifically what was taking place but though adults were going to be there, I knew it wasn't a time nor place for him to be over there, they would have been unattended. I spoke it over with my ex husband-whose family it is and he agreed.
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Then if something bad did happen and knowlingly you allowed her there, then where does that leave you? There's other sleepovers for sure. |
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Your not a bad mom you are being a responsible adult.
Co Ed sleep over ??? Ummmm No Yes kids will be kids and we aren’t stupid but why allow this to happen with parental knowledge??? Let her 15 year old self get mad, she will get over it. Your being a good mom , you care __________________ Helping others gets me out of my own head ~ |
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This thread got me thinking about my teen experience. If my friends and I had proper parenting, we would have used better judgment about what we did. Had some role model discussed with me self esteem and healthy relationships, I would have acted like you’d want your child to act as a parent.
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