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Apr 12, 2019 at 07:34 PM
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I can’t get rid of feeling that I suck
And should not speak Or even be 
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Apr 12, 2019 at 07:53 PM
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Fuzzybear!!!You really think this, I don't believe it and you shouldn't either, you're a wonderful person as far as I see from your posts, and replies you're great to me. I do hope you feel better soon!!
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Apr 12, 2019 at 09:14 PM
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((Fuzzybear)), for a very long time you barely posted and just gave hugs. I think you have found a voice and it's nice to see you vocalizing things. I think you are identifying your feelings/emotions on different things. It's important that you don't say mean things to yourself. I have a feeling this is coming from someone else's voice in your mind and not yours.
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Apr 12, 2019 at 10:20 PM
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Hugs to you, Fuzzy....you do not suck. You know, I have felt that way at times. Working on changing it. I think Open Eyes is right. You are finding your voice. It is important to take care of that voice, and the way you talk to yourself. Oh the false stories we tell ourselves. Hugs.
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Apr 12, 2019 at 11:03 PM
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No you don’t.
***** You should speak. You should be. Good things happen when you do! 
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Apr 13, 2019 at 07:45 AM
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You have been bringing up AWESOME questions & making great points.....much appreciated & respected. You DEFINITELY DO NOT SUCK  
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Apr 13, 2019 at 09:24 AM
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Hugs. You don’t suck.. We all can feel that way sometimes, well, unless the person is a full blown narcissist. Lol.
Think of and hold onto all your best qualities, keep them in mind at all times and pull them out of your toolbox whenever you find yourself saying negative things about yourself. Everyone has strengths and weaknesses. No one is perfect. If we constantly only look at our flaws and think badly of ourselves because of those flaws, we’ll never feel good. It’s like looking at ourselves through a colored lens that blocks out all that is positive and good. It’s a false reality that blocks out the good. Embrace all your positive qualities, and work on the areas that need work. But just because some things may take working on and improving, it doesn’t mean we suck altogether. It just means we’re human and have flaws. So embrace all that is beautiful and wonderful about yourself, and remember those things whenever you feel low. Use self-affirmations every time you’re beating yourself up. That is how you can build or rebuild your self-esteem. HUGS! __________________ "Twenty-five years and my life is still trying to get up that great big hill of hope for a destination" ~4 Non Blondes |
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Apr 13, 2019 at 10:14 AM
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Fuzzy....I HIGHLY doubt that you suck.
__________________ I go about my own business, and keep my mind on myself and my life. I expect the same courtesy from the rest of the world.
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