I mustnít talk to papa bear - Forums at Psych Central



advertisement
Reply
 
Thread Tools Display Modes
Old 04-13-2019, 04:08 PM #1
Fuzzybear's Avatar
Fuzzybear Fuzzybear is offline
Wisest Elder Ever
 
Member Since: Nov 2002
Location: Cave.
Posts: 80,284
Fuzzybear Fuzzybear is offline
Wisest Elder Ever
Fuzzybear's Avatar
Fuzzybear has no updates.
 
Member Since: Nov 2002
Location: Cave.
Posts: 80,284 (SuperPoster!)

15 yr Member
52.3k hugs
given
PC PoohBah!
Default I mustnít talk to papa bear

I stress him out when I talk to him. He needs a lot of alone time. Iím not doing ok.... I wish I wasnít so (insert bad label) I wish I could sleep. I wish people irl liked me. They donít
__________________
Fuzzybear is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote

advertisement
Old 04-13-2019, 04:31 PM #2
Open Eyes's Avatar
Open Eyes Open Eyes is online now
Legendary
 
Member Since: Mar 2011
Location: Northeast USA
Posts: 18,431
Open Eyes Open Eyes is online now
Legendary
Open Eyes's Avatar
Open Eyes has no updates.
 
Member Since: Mar 2011
Location: Northeast USA
Posts: 18,431 (SuperPoster!)

8 yr Member
15.2k hugs
given
PC PoohBah!
Default Re: I mustnít talk to papa bear

It sounds to me like you have too many people around you that are unhappy about themselves in some way and end up growling at you for it.
Open Eyes is online now   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
Hugs from:
"Thanks for this!" says:
Old 04-14-2019, 06:29 AM #3
Anonymous55879
Guest
 
Posts: n/a
Anonymous55879
Guest
Anonymous55879 has no updates. Edit
 
Posts: n/a

Default Re: I mustnít talk to papa bear

Quote:
Originally Posted by Fuzzybear View Post
I stress him out when I talk to him. He needs a lot of alone time. Iím not doing ok.... I wish I wasnít so (insert bad label) I wish I could sleep. I wish people irl liked me. They donít
Maybe I am totally wrong about this but my POV is that he married you and has stayed with you so he must like or love you. Some people get more irritable as they get older. At least my husband and I have.

Try to think about what you need as much as what he needs. You have to have attitude if you want an equal partnership with your spouse. He gets you to leave him alone by being stressed. Sometimes people need stress to grow!

Hugs Fuzzy.
  Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
Hugs from:
"Thanks for this!" says:
Old 04-14-2019, 11:59 AM #4
Fuzzybear's Avatar
Fuzzybear Fuzzybear is offline
Wisest Elder Ever
 
Member Since: Nov 2002
Location: Cave.
Posts: 80,284
Fuzzybear Fuzzybear is offline
Wisest Elder Ever
Fuzzybear's Avatar
Fuzzybear has no updates.
 
Member Since: Nov 2002
Location: Cave.
Posts: 80,284 (SuperPoster!)

15 yr Member
52.3k hugs
given
PC PoohBah!
Default Re: I mustnít talk to papa bear

ďI tried so hard to be somebody
You could be close to...Ē
__________________
Fuzzybear is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
Old 04-14-2019, 12:38 PM #5
Open Eyes's Avatar
Open Eyes Open Eyes is online now
Legendary
 
Member Since: Mar 2011
Location: Northeast USA
Posts: 18,431
Open Eyes Open Eyes is online now
Legendary
Open Eyes's Avatar
Open Eyes has no updates.
 
Member Since: Mar 2011
Location: Northeast USA
Posts: 18,431 (SuperPoster!)

8 yr Member
15.2k hugs
given
PC PoohBah!
Default Re: I mustnít talk to papa bear

Thing is Fuzzy, not everyone can be receptive to that, not your fault.
Open Eyes is online now   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
"Thanks for this!" says:
Old 04-14-2019, 01:00 PM #6
Fuzzybear's Avatar
Fuzzybear Fuzzybear is offline
Wisest Elder Ever
 
Member Since: Nov 2002
Location: Cave.
Posts: 80,284
Fuzzybear Fuzzybear is offline
Wisest Elder Ever
Fuzzybear's Avatar
Fuzzybear has no updates.
 
Member Since: Nov 2002
Location: Cave.
Posts: 80,284 (SuperPoster!)

15 yr Member
52.3k hugs
given
PC PoohBah!
Default Re: I mustnít talk to papa bear

ďThis has been a day to die for
Now the day is almost done ..Ē

__________________
Fuzzybear is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
Reply

Thread Tools
Display Modes

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off



All times are GMT -5. The time now is 05:31 PM.

Powered by vBulletin® — Copyright © 2000 - 2019, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.



 

advertisement

Psych Central Forums

Psych Central is the leading mental health website, overseen by mental health professionals since 1995.

 

Helplines and Lifelines

The material on this site is for informational purposes only, and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis or treatment provided by a qualified health care provider. .

Always consult your doctor or mental health professional before trying anything you read here.
Please read the full disclaimer.