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Default Apr 13, 2019 at 04:08 PM
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I stress him out when I talk to him. He needs a lot of alone time. I’m not doing ok.... I wish I wasn’t so (insert bad label) I wish I could sleep. I wish people irl liked me. They don’t

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Default Apr 13, 2019 at 04:31 PM
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It sounds to me like you have too many people around you that are unhappy about themselves in some way and end up growling at you for it.
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I stress him out when I talk to him. He needs a lot of alone time. I’m not doing ok.... I wish I wasn’t so (insert bad label) I wish I could sleep. I wish people irl liked me. They don’t
Maybe I am totally wrong about this but my POV is that he married you and has stayed with you so he must like or love you. Some people get more irritable as they get older. At least my husband and I have.

Try to think about what you need as much as what he needs. You have to have attitude if you want an equal partnership with your spouse. He gets you to leave him alone by being stressed. Sometimes people need stress to grow!

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Default Apr 14, 2019 at 11:59 AM
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Default Apr 14, 2019 at 12:38 PM
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Thing is Fuzzy, not everyone can be receptive to that, not your fault.
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