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This may help you; write him an email and don't censure yourself AT ALL. When you're done, put it in your draft folder but don't send it. Anytime you want to contact him, go back and read that email where you released all of your anger and resentment and sadness and every emotion you feel. Then, when you're ready, delete it. |
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Gymgirl, don't put your effort into telling him off. He is a broken hurting person and that won't help you or him. Just wish him well and walk away, he is clearly already hurting and doesn't need any more. Be merciful and just walk away and pray he gets help, he is going to really need it.
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Your pain is understandable. Even when a relationship wasn't great, a period of grief is natural and even healing. Be kind to yourself. You deserve peace and joy.
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Well temporary pain is better than beating a dead horse..he sure as hell wasnt putting any effort
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