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Default Apr 16, 2019 at 03:43 AM
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Well, I wasn't looking fr any connection. I know that I am alone. Don't need anyone. Not sure why I try to talk to people. I should stick to creating my own peeople in my head to talk to. That way, if I need someone, then i can make it happen.
besides, I never get to talk about myself. Whenever i do, people disappear. But they tend to stay when I aske them tons of questions about them. But as soon as I get to something about me, conversation is over.
More reasons I hate talking to people. Conversations seem all fake to me.
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Default Apr 16, 2019 at 08:03 AM
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Sorry that you are going though this

Is it here? Or another forum?
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Default Apr 16, 2019 at 08:15 AM
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I'm so sorry for your awful experience and hope it's not here!

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Welcome to pc hugs, i hope you feel welcome here and part of the community.
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Sorry that you are going though this

Is it here? Or another forum?
here and everywhere.
They can persecute me all they want though, not gonna live to someone else expectations to praise them as some sort of god that they think they are.
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Default Apr 16, 2019 at 03:35 PM
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here and everywhere.
They can persecute me all they want though, not gonna live to someone else expectations to praise them as some sort of god that they think they are.


people can be so cruel sometimes. I'm so sorry you went through it

I hope you decide to stay here where you're wanted and we can certainly support you with what ever

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people can be so cruel sometimes. I'm so sorry you went through it


I hope you decide to stay here where you're wanted and we can certainly support you with what ever


best thing about this forum is you can vent all you want


no limits


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I second this.
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people can be so cruel sometimes. I'm so sorry you went through it

I hope you decide to stay here where you're wanted and we can certainly support you with what ever

best thing about this forum is you can vent all you want

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deep down i hate people
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people can be so cruel sometimes. I'm so sorry you went through it

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I third this
I think some people should pay for what they do to others.
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Default Apr 17, 2019 at 04:38 AM
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I think some people should pay for what they do to others.


their are lots of bad people in the world

but deffenetely a lot of good ones
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Default Apr 17, 2019 at 07:49 AM
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their are lots of bad people in the world

but deffenetely a lot of good ones
Don't believe anyone is good. I think "good" is used for social reasons. Like whos the judge?
I do believe that everyone is capable to hurt other people.
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Don't believe anyone is good. I think "good" is used for social reasons. Like whos the judge?

I do believe that everyone is capable to hurt other people.
I think that falls very well in line with Lao Tzu and the Art of War. Know Thyself, Know Thy Enemy.

It's ok to Trust Noone.
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Don't believe anyone is good. I think "good" is used for social reasons. Like whos the judge?
I do believe that everyone is capable to hurt other people.


their's a lot of truth to that.

I think anyone is capable of doing anything

anyone is capable of being really good, or anyone is capable of being really bad

guess a lot of it depends on circumstances and situations that person is put in

and if they choose to act in a certain way
example: anyone could punch someone

but maybe they choose not to do it
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I think that falls very well in line with Lao Tzu and the Art of War. Know Thyself, Know Thy Enemy.

It's ok to Trust Noone.
ill google that and see whats it about
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Default Apr 17, 2019 at 04:24 PM
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their's a lot of truth to that.

I think anyone is capable of doing anything

anyone is capable of being really good, or anyone is capable of being really bad

guess a lot of it depends on circumstances and situations that person is put in

and if they choose to act in a certain way
example: anyone could punch someone

but maybe they choose not to do it
I want to punch someone
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I think that falls very well in line with Lao Tzu and the Art of War. Know Thyself, Know Thy Enemy.

It's ok to Trust Noone.
I think it’s ok to trust no one, it’s not a place I like to reside in though.

Know thyself and know thy “enemy” makes sense.

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I think it’s ok to trust no one, it’s not a place I like to reside in though.


Know thyself and know thy “enemy” makes sense.
It truly does. It's ancient text that has transcended the ages. I was introduced to it in college by a friend of a friend pursuing the military life. It's a known tool for managers in leadership courses and it spoke to me at that point in time. Remains a steady presence on my bureau, the way a coffee table book would. I know another touted book that I'm only in the middle of is The Obstacle is the Way. That one isn't an ancient classic, but it has its points.
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