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Default Apr 16, 2019 at 01:10 PM
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If someone had told me many years ago when I was a little cub...
That I was “not guilty” that would have been a kindness....
I’m wondering about feelings of guilt and shame in early childhood...
Just for being a little cub...
And learning to stuff emotions...
To not ... possibly to not form “normal” healthy connections as the family had no desire or ability to form healthy connections...
Guilt and shame projected onto a little cub. It’s sad
I was a good cub
The little cub inside me is still a good cub..
A being of light..
And I’m not a “bad bear”
Surprise. The sociopathic step maternal unit was mistaken..
In all her cruelty, gaslighting and projections

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Default Apr 16, 2019 at 02:08 PM
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You are a good bear.

A really good bear.

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You are a good bear.

A really good bear.

Thank you Bill3

You’re a really good person.


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