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How can I prove to my ex husband's girlfriend that I'm not the one spreading rumors about her ?
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Have a straight forward conversation in person , unless you think things could become physical , then a phone call would suffice.

Its doubtful she will believe you , but at least you stated your truth.
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Do you need to prove it to her if its not true?
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Do you need to prove it to her if its not true?
I feel like I need to prove it just for the sake of ending drama.
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Have a straight forward conversation in person , unless you think things could become physical , then a phone call would suffice.

Its doubtful she will believe you , but at least you stated your truth.
I'm going to talk to her when in person when I have the chance. I don't know if it will do much good, but I'm going to try.
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You can't prove a negative. Stop trying. Going to her to plead with her to believe you just further fuels the drama. Simply stop being drawn into this drama. Ignore.
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I'm so sorry you're going through all of this, Betrayed92! I haven't read the thread you're referring to, but I agree with what all the other wise, wonderful posters have already wisely said better than I ever could! You've been given lots of great, kind, wise and wonderful advice on this thread! I'd suggest to follow it as much as you can if you want to! I completely agree with what ~Christina has already wisely said better than I ever could about talking to her about this and see how it goes from there! Just tell her the truth and see how it goes from there! Hopefully she'll believe you and understand what you mean! If she doesn't, at least you can say you've tried and please remember that it's NOT YOUR FAULT! You've tried your best and that's what matters! Trying our best is all we humans can do after all and it's ALWAYS more than enough! I also completely agree with what sarahsweets and Rose76 have already wisely said better than I ever could about the fact that you don't have any obligation to PROVE IT to her if you already know the truth! You can't force her to believe you after all and the final decision is up to her! Try not to take it too personally and pleease remind yourself that you did NOTHING WRONG and that's what matters in the end! Remember that we're here for you if you need it! Feel free to PM me anytime! Let us know if there's ANYTHING AT ALL that we can do to help YOU! Just let us know and mention it and we'll ALL try OUR BEST to help you in any way we possibly can! We're here for you ANYTME you need it! I PROMISE YOU THAT! PLEASE REMEMBER THAT! WISH YOU GOOD LUCK! Let us know how it goes! I'm so sorry you have to deal with all of this, Betrayed92!
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