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Default May 08, 2019 at 07:12 PM
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I wrote my narcissistic friend an email explaining why I thought it best we did not have any email contact. I didn't say No Contact forever...but I did say no emails because she constantly uses email as a tool of manipulation.
Actually, no contact is even better. She may even be intimidated to approach you now that you have blown her cover. She knows you now see her for who she really is. The fact that she used to manipulate you by email rather than coming forth face to face, shows that she is a coward.

I'm glad you see that you deserve better.
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Default May 09, 2019 at 01:31 AM
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Actually, no contact is even better. She may even be intimidated to approach you now that you have blown her cover. She knows you now see her for who she really is. The fact that she used to manipulate you by email rather than coming forth face to face, shows that she is a coward.

I'm glad you see that you deserve better.


Well, I don't think we have to inform the narcissist of our intentions of going No Contact. The truth is whenever I remember the things she said in her last emails...it shows me it is over. She said things that...I would not be friends with anyone who said such things...even in anger. It has to do with her worldview which I now know is warped.

This has been a long time coming. The truth is I have wanted to go No Contact with this person for the last few years...but did not have the courage or confidence to do it. But I think all the personal work I have done is showing up in that I can no longer tolerate being treated unfairly and rudely.


Probably I could not face my own abandonment issues up until now. I can tolerate being alone in an existential sense. This person knows I am in a period of being lonely and used that to make me feel vulnerable. But finally I saw the game and now it's over for good.

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