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#41
((Betty)) you are allowed to vent here. You have been very challenged and it's only normal you would get to a point where you get so frustrated you need to vent it someplace.
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Betty_Banana
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#42
Sometimes we have to get to that final draw the line point. It can go either way in the end.....glad you got the response that yiu were wanting, for him to make that dr's appointment......see how it goes. Maybe he needed you to do that to know you are serious & not willing to fool around with this any longer.
I still chuckle at my now ex-H's response when I left him. His comment: "I thought since you tolerated me for 33 years you would tolerate me for the rest of our lives: NOT!!!! There comes a point where enough is enough & we have to take a stand. Good for you. Hope it does work out for a better future. __________________ Leo's favorite place was in the passenger seat of my truck. We went everywhere together like this. Leo my soulmate will live in my heart FOREVER Nov 1, 2002 - Dec 16, 2018 |
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#43
I've decided it's time to have a little ceremony/service for the old him.Just ne though,just me and a few pictures from before. Along with all the thoughts and feelings and hurt and pain I have.
I HAVE to let go of who and how he used to be so that I can move forward and accept who he is now. Of course I'm not going to tell anybody in RL about it. It needs to be done and it's time to do it |
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