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Default Jun 09, 2019 at 09:01 PM
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My family and others who know believing me is most important part of the situation
Why would they believe an ex bearing a grudge and not you? Why would you even feel you need to discuss details about your sexual experiences with them in order to defend yourself? I’m not really grasping your thinking in this, so I don’t have much to offer in order to help.

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Default Jun 09, 2019 at 10:09 PM
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I have one more thought to share if that's okay Becleyhicks. You said you have been struggling with this need to know if family members believe you for 3 years. And you said you have discussed this at length with your therapist. Do you think it might be time to find a new therapist? If she has not been able to help you resolve this issue in 3 years, I would seriously question her skills. Just a thought. Peace.
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Default Jun 16, 2019 at 01:22 AM
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You cant control what other people think of you. Since this has been three years I suggest you consider therapy to help you get over feeling like you have to care what other people think. You do not have to prove anything. It doesnt matter if you sleep with everyone its still no one's business.

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Default Jun 27, 2019 at 09:43 AM
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oh... It's must be only your opinion about situation
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