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#61
He's vanished.. Just disappeared mid sentence. All I know is that none of his team are about, his guys have gone, his phone rang through until it died, not spoken in three days now I think.
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Under normal circumstances it could be ok to stop by his house see if he moved out etc But under these circumstances I advice you to not come near these people. Give it time to heal and move on with your life. You don’t need this kind of life style. Count your blessings. Hugs and best wishes |
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so are you telling us that this whole time this guy in your life was actually just a delusion/ hallucination? for how else can a human being be sitting with someone and in mid sentence vanish. have to tell you now that you have posted he vanished in mid sentence your whole thread now makes a lot of sense to me for I have psychosis as part of my Bipolar disorder where I have had the delusion and hallucination to match then in the middle of doing something that delusion/ hallucination just vanishes. Sometimes it feels so real when its happening but then when it / they disappear and there is no sign of it/them anywhere I have no choice but to realie and accept that it was not real, just a hallucination delusion combo related to my other problems. what helps me when this happens is talking to my treatment providers and having my medications adjusted. my suggestion is contact your treatment providers, tell them all that has transpired / happened and go from there. they can help you get through this confusing and stressful time. |
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#64
Mid sentence can be an unfinished text or cell phone conversation. I have experienced that when the other person lost service or phone had no battery power left or was in an area where they were too far from a cell tower and lost the signal.
Jp is what amandalouise describing experiencing sound like anything you are experiencing? |
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#65
Hopefully op comes back to clarify if the guy just hung up the phone mid sentence or his whole existence was a hallucination. I agree with Amanda about seeing treatment provider ASAP if it’s the later
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#66
We were chatting in WhatsApp, and all of a sudden he vanished. Not answering the door, no one had seen him, his guys were gone. He's very much real, not a delusional. I went back to his place and this time his friend answered. He is just very poorly so they are staying with him. He's sleeping a lot, apparently food poisoning of some kind. He apologised greatly, he just said he couldn't do much.
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#67
Hi JP31,
I think you should please add the Trigger Warning icon to this post. It’s the solid red dot. This post has been quite triggering to many here. I see you are new to PC and your only posting has been on this thread of yours. You are most welcome to be here for your issues and support. I want to say, I don’t believe your story is 100% truthful. You may be completely a troll and having fun, toying with folks here. I’m sorry to be so blunt, but I see you have concerned and upset many here. Your story just does not make sense. The details you describe do not really happen IRL. Some of them, sure, they can happen. But with all you described, it just doesn’t add up. You don’t even have a concern on this post, as it started with asking if we think your date has protection and then it became apparent you had no concern about him, and now you continue to tease this audience with more mystery. It sounds to me like you are enjoying telling a tall tale. __________________ "And don't say it hasn't been a little slice of heaven, 'cause it hasn't!" . About Me--T |
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#68
He has food poisoning now? It hit him midsentence and he just hung up and sleeps for three days not answering the phone? And you aren’t even bothered by it. All righty then. I think you really need to see a professional regardless if he is real or imaginary boyfriend
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#69
I agree. This is too far fetched to be reality. No one really does that. He couldn’t answer the phone for three days? Or the door? Dropped off mid sentence?
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#70
If you cant be supportive, maybe you shouldnt post, instead of posting against guidelines.
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#71
Have you ever talked to a therapist or a psychologist? I wonder if it’s something you would consider regardless how things transpired with this guy. Personally I’d also talk to a police about what happened and they could help you to sort it out but so could a therapist. I understand you are in UK. I’d recommend going seeing your GP and they could determine if you would benefit from seeing some one. It won’t hurt to ask your GP.
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Jp31, do you have a good friend or two in your offline life? Someone you can talk this over with for some comfort? Or a hug?
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#73
Ok, time for some deep breaths. I see different members trying to be supportive here with this new member and this challenge she is describing. Is it real? right? Well, I have been a member here for a really long time and I sure have seen or read some very strange things. I have actually seen someone create a false identity and pull other members into believing this false identity. Member X ended up coming up with a whole new identity too and thought it was great that so many were fooled. I watched this individual present a charming persona and how this individual learned to be very politically correct and having the right lean and slowly charming many members too. Member X pretended to be something very different than member X actually was and to my horror a lot of members were drawn to this member and I can't say enough how triggering it was for me at the time, actually myself and some others that were being badly triggered as well. And even when the TRUTH finally came out, "oh but member X is nice and in pain and deserves to be helped".
I also witnessed this IRL too where an individual can create a persona that is NOT the truth or based on reality and yet can be extremely convincing. A friend of mine experienced this challenge and got pulled into believing this individual's lies. This friend was no spring chicken at the time either. This friend of mine was taken on quite the ride too until it ALL FELL APART. This friend was completely shocked and devastated by this entire experience. And there were other people that went along with this guy's tales too. This friend of mine was so shattered and confused and I used to have to make time at night where I would talk to her as she repeated all the things she experienced with this individual trying to process this crazy trip he took her on mentally and emotionally. I knew he was real because I had actually met him too. One thing I do know is that a person can create a false persona and can actually get others to go along with it and actually BELIEVE them. This individual could be making all of this up for attention, YET, this individual could be someone that is actually experiencing an individual that is creating something about themselves that is confusing her. I myself have been experiencing a person that I share about here and at times I know it can sound UNBELIEVABLE. I sit across from my therapist NEEDING him to listen and believe me because the individual I am dealing with is REALLY MESSED UP. It's possible there are others that might think I am delusional or making this up for attention, but that is simply not the case. It's possible this individual is experiencing something very confusing. It's also possible this person is having psychotic episodes, it's also possible this person is looking for attention. Bottom line, we just don't know, could be any one of these challenges. The only thing members here can do is listen, if it's too much for any member to handle, then it's ok to step back too. And sometimes, a person creates stories that have to do with themselves too, they put in things they may have experienced in their lives that they need to talk about a certain way in order to help them deal with whatever it might be. One thing I do know is that human beings are incredibly complex and the longer I live the more I have come to realize there often is no "simple answer" or rhyme or reason. It can be hard to know how much is real or imagined or even made up altogether. One thing I can say is that I myself have been triggered on this site, but also IRL as well. I try very hard to stop and step back and sort through how something affects me and "why" and it has been at times very challenging. Often I talk about something I am experiencing IRL and a person suddenly thinks I am talking about them too or even something they said, when that is not the case. It can be quite the challenge. At any rate, this individual seems to be reaching out for some kind of help. It can take time to see what this person may really need help with. As I have mentioned, sometimes the person asking for help is dealing with something that sounds strange, but it's the person they are experiencing that is the problem and not so much them. |
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#75
Please do not post on this thread UNLESS you are offering the op support.
As a friendly reminder, to quote DocJohn: Quote:
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#76
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Anyone can be taken for a ride, insist it's true only to end up having it all fall apart on them. |
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#77
The OP said she is not looking for any help. Is that right?
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__________________ What if I fall? Oh, my dear, but what if you fly? Primary Dx: C-PTSD and Severe Chronic Treatment Resistant Major Depressive Disorder Secondary Dx: Generalized Anxiety Disorder with mild Agoraphobia. Meds I've tried: Prozac, Zoloft, Celexa, Effexor, Remeron, Elavil, Wellbutrin, Risperidone, Abilify, Prazosin, Paxil, Trazadone, Tramadol, Topomax, Xanax, Propranolol, Valium, Visteril, Vraylar, Selinor, Clonopin, Ambien Treatments I've done: CBT, DBT, Transcranial Magnetic Stimulation (TMS), Talk therapy, psychotherapy, exercise, diet, sleeping more, sleeping less... |
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__________________ What if I fall? Oh, my dear, but what if you fly? Primary Dx: C-PTSD and Severe Chronic Treatment Resistant Major Depressive Disorder Secondary Dx: Generalized Anxiety Disorder with mild Agoraphobia. Meds I've tried: Prozac, Zoloft, Celexa, Effexor, Remeron, Elavil, Wellbutrin, Risperidone, Abilify, Prazosin, Paxil, Trazadone, Tramadol, Topomax, Xanax, Propranolol, Valium, Visteril, Vraylar, Selinor, Clonopin, Ambien Treatments I've done: CBT, DBT, Transcranial Magnetic Stimulation (TMS), Talk therapy, psychotherapy, exercise, diet, sleeping more, sleeping less... |
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#80
Closed for Administrative discussion. Please do not open a new thread on this subject. Thank you.
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