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Aug 04, 2019 at 10:44 AM
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She is younger than you correct? From what I recall you are 24 and she is around 20?
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Aug 04, 2019 at 02:27 PM
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She’s 25 and I’m 26 |
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Aug 14, 2019 at 12:08 AM
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Update time
So we’re doing a little bit better. She secretly got off her Fibromyalgia medication because it’s not good for a fetus. Anyways she couldn’t deal with being off the meds and came to me saying that we should wait until she can lose weight. Honestly we were waiting anyways but I thought at least she got on board by herself. However no more than two days later she’s already wanting me to get her pregnant. Which I’m pissed off about. This is getting ridiculous. |
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Aug 16, 2019 at 09:39 PM
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You say your doing better , first sentence.
Then Last bit is her again wanting to get pregnant ? So ummmm how are things better???? If she’s on the pill you need to physically watch her swallow it each day. Because if not she will get pregnant regardless of your wanting to wait, since she basically told you she only wants sex while ovulating because HELLO that’s when a woman is able to get pregnant. Please google to read facts about when a woman can get pregnant. __________________ Helping others gets me out of my own head ~ |
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Aug 17, 2019 at 10:58 PM
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Hi Stuck1nhead
Love in itself is rarely enough to build a life together with another person...see I emphasised the 'Building a life together' part? To build a life it takes money, planning and similar vision. It certainly isn't a prerequisite to both want all the same things, there has to be a level of autonomy...But the important visions and plans like bringing children into the world are an absolute deal breaker. In my opinion no one should have to compromise when it comes to the major decisions... if you aren't on the same page, then you don't want the same life. Yes she deserves the life she wants...But so do you. __________________ The devil whispered in my ear, "You cannot withstand the storm." I whispered back, "I am the storm." 
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Aug 20, 2019 at 11:42 PM
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I’ve given up with her trying to see reason. All she does is is watch baby videos, read pregnancy books, and talk kids. It’s just so unattractive now. So unattractive that sex of off the table for at least a few months.
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Aug 21, 2019 at 03:25 AM
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Is Couple therapy an option? Individual therapy for both?
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Aug 21, 2019 at 04:02 AM
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That’s expensive and we do not possess the funds for that. |
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Aug 21, 2019 at 06:53 AM
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Aug 21, 2019 at 06:58 AM
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Yes and I have my first counseling session in two years on Thursday. |
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Aug 21, 2019 at 07:18 AM
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Very well put Quarter Life! |
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