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Of course this isn’t a perfect list and may not be something everyone believes, but I thought it was a good one. Sort of like a primer for a new relationship.
10 Early Signs Your Relationship Will Last | HuffPost Life __________________ "I carried a watermelon?" President of the no F's given society. |
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Well no list can be perfect, and a variety of perspectives and views is always better. Critical thinking is a must |
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After looking through the article more in depth, I can say that that I pretty much agree with all of the points, myself.
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It’s very accurate. Thanks for sharing it.
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I’m not forthcoming on my past with regards to going in to details about my mental health. He knows I’m bipolar but he doesn’t know that I was once an inpatient a few years ago for 3 days when my marriage fell apart.
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It’s almost the first wedding anniversary with my husband. Our relationship has all of these signs right from the start Thank you for sharing.
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I always get nervous when I hear things like this because, in my experience, these kinds of things have a habit of almost always coming out eventually. Are you sure it wouldn't be better to just try to discuss it in an adult way now?
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I don't think being being forthcoming with every detail is ideal at every phase to be honest. As trust builds more can be revealed if and when it is necessary and relevant to your current relationship. Depends on the people involved too but in most cases I think laying it all on the table at the forefront isn't really something people should do.
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Agreed but getting back to the point of why it is listed on that site is that the idea is, if you DO TRUST the other person to the point where you feel comfortable sharing those things openly it's a sign of a strong relationship. Take your most private matters in your heart and if there is that one person you know wouldn't judge, wouldn't use that information against you but would support or accept it, that is a true friend or "soul mate" so-to-speak. |
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