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If you don't mind my asking, what was your relationship like with your father?
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I’d also talk to a therapist about attraction to unavailable disinterested men. There has to be something in it. When you explore it in depth you might break the pattern. |
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There’s a bigger picture here for you as to relationships and good points here about how you are predisposed to unavailable men. But I want to say something about texting. I think texting conversations aren’t a great idea. You should try to keep it to just short, important messages. He probably does get bored with the back and forth and goes silent on you. Try to save the conversation for the times you are together in person and don’t be overly available. This guy is probably not right for you and you’ll move on anyway. But add a little mystery and see how it goes. You may be surprised to find him pursuing you more. __________________ "And don't say it hasn't been a little slice of heaven, 'cause it hasn't!" . About Me--T |
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Disney you kept texting and calling this guy Saturday and Sunday and Monday and he isn’t replying. He isn’t asking you on a date and he isn’t making arrangements to see you. Thats not how men act if they are into you. At some point it has to click that he isn’t interested. He isn’t worth pursuing. Please just let this guy go. There are ton of men out there who would like to date you. But you got to drop this one
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