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Default Oct 27, 2019 at 09:06 AM
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With in our parents household,I witnessed this a lot.My parents were more lenient towards my siblings.They could get away with anything.If they said they were hungry,they were provided with food.If I said I was hungry,I was either beaten by my mom or scolded by my dad because I was being bratty.I never understood the differential treatment though.
Wow I’m sorry you had to deal with that. Yeah I don’t understand it either.
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Default Oct 27, 2019 at 09:35 AM
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I have to ask you ,are you ables to stand back and access the situation before a thought without judging first?
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Default Oct 27, 2019 at 09:42 AM
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Its true ,I have or am trying to forgive my adult children from my perspective on how they treat me. I do not like it at all,So I have been blaming them for my depression i wonder..I am starting to enjoy this site it sure makes you think,and hopefully in a truly positive way. Through understanding and respect maybe the only way..or is it too much to ask from certain people. Because they have their own "demons" or learning curves to where they are either learning faster or not about the fallacies of our natures. Being Human and trying to figure out how allow forgiveness of yourself more than forgiveness of others. When people will not forgive you and you love them..many of us goes to a place of This is wrong with me that is wrong with me..maybe there is too much.Blaming ourselves for either too much or not enough...or is it liken to narcissism ?
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Default Oct 27, 2019 at 02:33 PM
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I have to ask you ,are you ables to stand back and access the situation before a thought without judging first?
What do you mean?
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Default Oct 27, 2019 at 02:37 PM
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Its true ,I have or am trying to forgive my adult children from my perspective on how they treat me. I do not like it at all,So I have been blaming them for my depression i wonder..I am starting to enjoy this site it sure makes you think,and hopefully in a truly positive way. Through understanding and respect maybe the only way..or is it too much to ask from certain people. Because they have their own "demons" or learning curves to where they are either learning faster or not about the fallacies of our natures. Being Human and trying to figure out how allow forgiveness of yourself more than forgiveness of others. When people will not forgive you and you love them..many of us goes to a place of This is wrong with me that is wrong with me..maybe there is too much.Blaming ourselves for either too much or not enough...or is it liken to narcissism ?
I’m glad you are liking this site. Yeah it can be hard to not find fault in other people at times but I doubt it is always narcissism. It can vary.
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