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Nov 12, 2019 at 02:31 PM
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Am new here with the problem of obsession. It's been 5 months now since my ex boyfriend broke up with me but I still can't get over him.. Am no longer Inlove that I know but am finding it hard to move on... I hope to get answers and better now that m here. Thanks you
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Nov 12, 2019 at 08:00 PM
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Hello Thehumbleone: I see this is your first post here on PC. So... welcome to Psych Central.
 Here are links to 4 articles, from Psych Central's archives, on the subject of healing from heartbreak: Help on Healing from Heartbreak 12 Ways to Mend a Broken Heart 8 Tips for Healing Emotional Wounds | Happily Imperfect Recovery from Rejection and Breakups I hope you find PC to be of benefit. 
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Nov 12, 2019 at 08:41 PM
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Nov 15, 2019 at 01:51 AM
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Well it’s not really a long time since you broke up.
I dated a guy in my late 20’s for about 8 months that honestly it took me a year to really get over him and move forward. Another guy I dated for about the same amount of time I honestly was over him with in a month or so. I think it’s important to grieve the loss of a relationship. It’s impossible to start something new if the past hasn’t been worked out. Do you have a Therapist?? If not finding one to help you process it all can be a huge help. Maybe journaling would help get the emotions out of your head.. You will find love , you will be able to open up to someone again. Go easy on yourself. __________________ Helping others gets me out of my own head ~ |
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Nov 16, 2019 at 05:15 AM
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Thanks everyone..am processing it now.. Am trying my best ...i just need someone to distract me... I missed being loved by aomebody
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You won't miss being loved by somebody if you love yourself. Are you taking care of yourself, being gentle with yourself, doing things to relax that you enjoy, etc?
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