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Nov 18, 2019 at 11:02 PM
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Hello. My name is Irina. I dated a man of 7 years old and as a result a child was born a year ago. He treats me very badly. He has not visited the child since August. On the child’s birthday, I found out that he lives with another woman. I tried to talk to him, find out the truth, but he only yelled at me. I wrote to his brother on Facebook that his brother has a child. In a few days my baby's father called me and yelled "who you are? stay away from me and my family, you are harassing. I can’t understand how so? I don't know what to do now. I told him that I will go to court and he is telling me some things to make me feel guilty, like I wanted this child and he gave me what I wanted. I don't know what to do? Please advice something 😔Thank you.
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Nov 19, 2019 at 09:05 PM
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Have a paternity test done, he can’t ignore his financial obligation for his child.
I’m sorry you are going through this , just keep loving on your baby 
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Nov 20, 2019 at 03:47 AM
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Take him to court for child support payments
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Nov 20, 2019 at 08:36 AM
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I think I'd stay as far away from this man as possible. (it is not unreasonable to pursue child support but from what you say it sounds like he might not fulfill his obligation even if a court finds in your favor and I don't think I would want, from what you say, him to have anything to do with my child)----((((((((((hug))))))))))))) Do you have someone to talk to who can help you sort out your options?
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Nov 20, 2019 at 11:53 PM
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I have my sister in Russia. We talked about it. She feels sorry for me. I am a strong woman and I will do all my best for my daughter. I am pretty stable financially. In one moment I scared that I will have some hard time in future because I am white and my baby is brown but every day I start to feel that I am becoming more stronger. Thank you very much for support:-)❤
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Nov 22, 2019 at 07:56 AM
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Being financially stable is a real plus and I am so glad you are feeling stronger---you can build a good life for you and your daughter. It is OK to be scared at times, it wouldn't be normal not to be, but don't let it get in your way for long. There are people out there that can help and we are here============Welcome to PC
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Nov 22, 2019 at 09:06 AM
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It is really good that you're financially stable! Decide whether or not you want to bring him to court. I feel like you have EVERY RIGHT to do that, but the choice is yours. Please keep taking care of your Children! I am sure you are REALLY strong and that you'll be able tohang on no matter what happens, but don't be afraid to speak up and to ask for help to anyone you can in any case, ok?!
 Sending many safe, warm hugs to BOTH you and your Children, @Bellira, your Family, your Friends, your Sister and ALL of your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, OK?!   
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