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I’m still struggling with codependency due to me asking too many advice and feeling abandoned after being left out of family events.
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Being left out of family events would hurt, so I can imagine that would naturally trigger feelings of abandonment. I have abandonment issues too, so I can relate. As for asking for advice too frequently? I still ask my parents for advice a lot of the time, especially when it comes to work issues. I guess I don't have that much confidence in myself, which is why I ask for guidance more than I should. Maybe the answer is to seek the answers within yourself more? And to lean on yourself more than you do on others for the advice you seek? I am trying to do this myself, but it's a challenge due to the confidence issue. I wish I had more confidence in my own ability to problem solve, but I find it helpful to get others' perspectives. I'm sorry that I cannot be helpful, but I wanted to offer my support, at the very least because I am in a similar boat. Hugs to you. __________________ "Twenty-five years and my life is still trying to get up that great big hill of hope for a destination" ~4 Non Blondes |
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I try to look at what is in my control to work on and change, and what is completely out of my hands. I have to work on my confidence every day of my life - especially my confidence level at work. I am constantly doubting myself and have imposter syndrome, whereby I feel like I am putting on a good act of knowing more than I actually do - so my confidence suffers. It takes time and effort to work on oneself in this way, but I think it's well worth the effort in the end. __________________ "Twenty-five years and my life is still trying to get up that great big hill of hope for a destination" ~4 Non Blondes |
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Thanks for starting this post. This is an area I've thought a lot about lately in terms of my own relationship. I want to start taking steps to becoming less codependent.
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64 Signs of Mental and Emotional Abuse: How to Identify It, What to Do
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Your welcome. I was diagnosed with codependency. I’m trying to stop fixed my relationship.
__________________ Everyone can do magic - Cassie Nightgale the good witch. Dear Diary today will be different today I can smile it will be genuine because today is the day I get to live. This life will be good and beautiful, but not without heartbreak. In death come peace. But pain is the cost of living. Like love, it's how we know we're alive. And life goes on. That my life weird, messy, complicated, sad, wonderful, amazing, and above all epic and I owe all to Stephen. - Eleanor Gilbert Vampire Diaries |
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__________________ Everyone can do magic - Cassie Nightgale the good witch. Dear Diary today will be different today I can smile it will be genuine because today is the day I get to live. This life will be good and beautiful, but not without heartbreak. In death come peace. But pain is the cost of living. Like love, it's how we know we're alive. And life goes on. That my life weird, messy, complicated, sad, wonderful, amazing, and above all epic and I owe all to Stephen. - Eleanor Gilbert Vampire Diaries |
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