FAQ/Help |
Calendar |
Search |
Newly Joined
Member Since Feb 2020
Location: Wales
Posts: 1
4 |
#1
So, I’m friends with this guy and he keeps telling people that I’m his girlfriend, when I’m not, and so whenever someone brings up “What would you do if Molly broke up with you?” he always says the same thing
Possible trigger:
Possible trigger:
Last edited by bluekoi; Feb 28, 2020 at 09:38 PM.. Reason: Add trigger Icon & Code. |
Reply With Quote |
ARaven0137, Buffy01, TishaBuv
|
Buffy01
|
Legendary
Member Since Dec 2014
Location: USA
Posts: 10,181
(SuperPoster!)
9 1,869 hugs
given |
#2
Hello RedBanana, and welcome to PC!
This sounds like a very uncomfortable and difficult situation. Do you have someone you can talk to who can help? Parents? School counselor? __________________ "And don't say it hasn't been a little slice of heaven, 'cause it hasn't!" . About Me--T |
Reply With Quote |
Member
Member Since Jan 2019
Location: USA
Posts: 142
5 101 hugs
given |
#3
Quote:
|
|
Reply With Quote |
Wise Elder
Member Since Dec 2017
Location: Eastern, USA
Posts: 9,082
(SuperPoster!)
6 3,626 hugs
given |
#4
Cut him out of your life. Don't talk to him about why. He won't understand that he's abusive. Don't try to reason with him or talk to him about it. You're not even his girlfriend.
__________________ "Twenty-five years and my life is still trying to get up that great big hill of hope for a destination" ~4 Non Blondes |
Reply With Quote |
Threadtastic Postaholic
Member Since Dec 2018
Location: New Jersey
Posts: 6,006
(SuperPoster!)
5 192 hugs
given |
#5
Be done with this guy. Aside from him making fun of you he sounds unstable because he says he would kill himself if you broke up with him. Saying that is a type of control and its emotional hijacking.
__________________ "I carried a watermelon?" President of the no F's given society. |
Reply With Quote |
ARaven0137, Buffy01
|
ARaven0137, Buffy01
|
Wise Elder
Member Since Oct 2017
Location: USA
Posts: 9,514
(SuperPoster!)
6 9,697 hugs
given |
#6
Quote:
|
|
Reply With Quote |
ARaven0137
|
ARaven0137
|
Veteran Member
Member Since Feb 2020
Location: US
Posts: 621
4 359 hugs
given |
#7
Hugs to you, RB. I was going through something almost exactly like that recently. I had a guy, who insisted that I was his GF because I was kind and a good listener for him. He kept demanding more and more and would make the wild, uncontrollable rants and threats to harm himself if I didn't comply. I was an emotional hostage for many months, feeling like I was the one responsible for his well being and his safety. Mine was abusive too. I finally had to cut ties and let nature take its course, which is very difficult for me. I frequently worry about his safety even now as it's been three days since I heard from him and his parents have no idea where he is. But, I think you have to get to the point where you understand that he will do what he is going to do and it's his responsibility, not yours. I know it's not easy, trust me.
I am pulling for you to get through this. I am where you're at and it's exhausting. |
Reply With Quote |
Reply |
|