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Hey ive posted on here before and it helpes alot. Through this site and some other relationship sites I was able to get my ex back. But i did it again I lost her. And now ots even worse because she lives closer and is now using online dating sites where shes already met people and and a new interest. She says she not interested in me and dosnt love me anymore but my feelings for her havnt changes once. I am a jealous person and it hurts so bad that she is doing this. What can I do how do i get her back and keep her this time?
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sorry to say this but it sounds like she has moved on and found a new life. there may be nothing you can do with this relationship except to be able to accept this.it sounds like she has made it clear where her life is going.. she is entitled to her own life, as are you.
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Acceptance, my friend. Acceptance.
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If she says she's not interested, that she doesn't love you anymore, and is interested in someone else, you're going to have to accept the ending, as painful as it is. I am sorry for your pain.... it does lessen over time. Hang in there.
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We don't "own" other people, other people will want to be their own person, do things they want to do, believe what they want to believe. This girl has outgrown you, wants to experience other connections. You should stop trying to pull her back or control her. Instead you would benefit from meeting others and making new connections yourself.
Sometimes after experiencing other connections a person may realize what they did not appreciate about an earlier relationship. That too is not anything you can force on anyone. If you hang around depressed, it won't fix her or what you are experiencing. It's better to move on and make other connections where you can grow instead. |
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I second open eyes. People are not to be "got" or "kept"---
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