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Grand Magnate
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It’s interesting. There’s another article that point to child abuse as a cause for the passive aggressive behaviour. It makes lots of sense since the person who uses these passive aggressive patters are reproducing both roles, the one of the abuser and the one of himself, the abused. __________________ Social Anxiety and Depression. Cluster C traits. Trying to improve my English. My apologies for errors and mistakes in advance. Mankind is complex: Make deserts blossom and lakes die. ( GIL SCOTT-HERSON) |
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It’s so important a kid feels himself loved, accepted, listened, respected. So important. Thanks god, we are now more aware than ever about how important it is because we are born with a temperament. Researchers were done with babies to know whether we were born with a higher or lower level of resilience and it came out that yes, we have a tendency. But, brought up is so relevant.
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That was an excellent article about causes of passive aggressive behaviors. Definitely food for thought. It explains a lot. Doesn’t necessarily excuses bad behaviors but explains why people might behave in this manner
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Yeah, I thought that article was eye opening. It helped me to understand it better. I grew up where anger was never expressed openly, so I learned to bury my anger and took it inwards against myself. I was never really passive aggressive, but I had trouble dealing with anger most of my life. I am still learning how to appropriately handle it.
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I may have said this before but passive aggressive people are cowards and taking the cowards way out of things. If someone has a problem with your work then can you have your manager or boss look it over? Do you have to let the gatekeeper look at it? Its clear she isnt on your team.
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