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Jun 08, 2020 at 01:22 PM
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Anyone WITHOUT baggage must surely have thrown it off the Tallahatchee Bridge.
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Jun 08, 2020 at 03:56 PM
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__________________  What if I fall? Oh, my dear, but what if you fly? Primary Dx: C-PTSD and Severe Chronic Treatment Resistant Major Depressive Disorder Secondary Dx: Generalized Anxiety Disorder with mild Agoraphobia. Meds I've tried: Prozac, Zoloft, Celexa, Effexor, Remeron, Elavil, Wellbutrin, Risperidone, Abilify, Prazosin, Paxil, Trazadone, Tramadol, Topomax, Xanax, Propranolol, Valium, Visteril, Vraylar, Selinor, Clonopin, Ambien Treatments I've done: CBT, DBT, Transcranial Magnetic Stimulation (TMS), Talk therapy, psychotherapy, exercise, diet, sleeping more, sleeping less... |
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Jun 08, 2020 at 04:30 PM
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__________________ What if I fall? Oh, my dear, but what if you fly? Primary Dx: C-PTSD and Severe Chronic Treatment Resistant Major Depressive Disorder Secondary Dx: Generalized Anxiety Disorder with mild Agoraphobia. Meds I've tried: Prozac, Zoloft, Celexa, Effexor, Remeron, Elavil, Wellbutrin, Risperidone, Abilify, Prazosin, Paxil, Trazadone, Tramadol, Topomax, Xanax, Propranolol, Valium, Visteril, Vraylar, Selinor, Clonopin, Ambien Treatments I've done: CBT, DBT, Transcranial Magnetic Stimulation (TMS), Talk therapy, psychotherapy, exercise, diet, sleeping more, sleeping less... |
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Jun 08, 2020 at 05:41 PM
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Well I would wear long pants and long sleeve shirt at first. Just so you can have a chance to experience him in person and see what it’s like to be in each other’s presence.
My daughter met a guy through an online site and eventually she learned he had not only ptsd but significant scars from being close to a bomb that went off. He is a vet and a really nice guy and other wise handsome. I dated a guy for a time who always wore long pants. After he got to know me he finally shared that he had been in a car accident and when he stepped out of the car he stepped in gasoline that quickly ignited severly burning both his legs. He had to have a lot of skin drafting and his legs were left severely scared Well he was a nice guy and otherwise good looking. Did not bother me. It was best for him to feel safe with me until he felt comfortable sharing. So I think it’s best to first see how it goes in person. Maybe make a date in a nearby park so you can have your dog with you. Most are choosing to socialize but safely in nearby parks. |
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Jun 09, 2020 at 05:08 AM
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No, I'm not ashamed of who I am or going to hide it to make someone else comfortable or to get them to like me. __________________ What if I fall? Oh, my dear, but what if you fly? Primary Dx: C-PTSD and Severe Chronic Treatment Resistant Major Depressive Disorder Secondary Dx: Generalized Anxiety Disorder with mild Agoraphobia. Meds I've tried: Prozac, Zoloft, Celexa, Effexor, Remeron, Elavil, Wellbutrin, Risperidone, Abilify, Prazosin, Paxil, Trazadone, Tramadol, Topomax, Xanax, Propranolol, Valium, Visteril, Vraylar, Selinor, Clonopin, Ambien Treatments I've done: CBT, DBT, Transcranial Magnetic Stimulation (TMS), Talk therapy, psychotherapy, exercise, diet, sleeping more, sleeping less... |
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Jun 09, 2020 at 02:04 PM
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Well, I was not really thinking about you being ashamed tbh. It's actually good that you don't care and just want to have him see you for what you are. Again, I just love your honesty and tenacity seesaw. Not everyone can be tenacious like that, it's refreshing.
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Jun 09, 2020 at 06:23 PM
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__________________ What if I fall? Oh, my dear, but what if you fly? Primary Dx: C-PTSD and Severe Chronic Treatment Resistant Major Depressive Disorder Secondary Dx: Generalized Anxiety Disorder with mild Agoraphobia. Meds I've tried: Prozac, Zoloft, Celexa, Effexor, Remeron, Elavil, Wellbutrin, Risperidone, Abilify, Prazosin, Paxil, Trazadone, Tramadol, Topomax, Xanax, Propranolol, Valium, Visteril, Vraylar, Selinor, Clonopin, Ambien Treatments I've done: CBT, DBT, Transcranial Magnetic Stimulation (TMS), Talk therapy, psychotherapy, exercise, diet, sleeping more, sleeping less... |
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Jun 11, 2020 at 08:23 AM
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__________________ Social Anxiety and Depression. Cluster C traits. Trying to improve my English. My apologies for errors and mistakes in advance. Mankind is complex: Make deserts blossom and lakes die. ( GIL SCOTT-HERSON) |
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Jun 11, 2020 at 10:29 AM
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I think that is a good way to approach whatever is "truth/real" about you, actually say you are only interested in being "authentic" with him.
I guess, the scary is when the other person can't be honest and authentic. We can't do anything about that because it's the other person's choice or "lack of ability". |
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Jun 11, 2020 at 11:39 AM
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__________________ What if I fall? Oh, my dear, but what if you fly? Primary Dx: C-PTSD and Severe Chronic Treatment Resistant Major Depressive Disorder Secondary Dx: Generalized Anxiety Disorder with mild Agoraphobia. Meds I've tried: Prozac, Zoloft, Celexa, Effexor, Remeron, Elavil, Wellbutrin, Risperidone, Abilify, Prazosin, Paxil, Trazadone, Tramadol, Topomax, Xanax, Propranolol, Valium, Visteril, Vraylar, Selinor, Clonopin, Ambien Treatments I've done: CBT, DBT, Transcranial Magnetic Stimulation (TMS), Talk therapy, psychotherapy, exercise, diet, sleeping more, sleeping less... |
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Jun 11, 2020 at 12:28 PM
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Maybe he is afraid to share that he has some challenges?
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