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I have said i stay away from women as i do not want to be used by them when they want something. But recently criminal behaviour in my apartment complexe leads to them approaching me to write the management. It suits me too as I want rid of the criminals too but as soon as they are finished they go back to their families. i knew they would but still feel a bit used. The caught me by surprise, I did not think they would approach me or else would have told them tocontact the police or management themselves
I miss my parents. I think society does not care about people except for happy people all of celebrations are for them Days like mothers day is for people who still have them I still text my friend who give me things but I am careful what i say I do not much miss people much to be honest. Most are a pain in the arse full of themselves and know everything. I only want to have a girlfriend and am depressed a lot due not having. But women I meet are coupled, not interested or they are interested in me but I do not return this feeling. I have to have a scan which may show a reason for my fatigue and if so it may be treatable |
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Not to downplay your experiences at all, but perhaps those women did contact the management themselves but wanted other tenants in the building, yourself included, to contact the management, as well? With the idea being that the more tenants lodging complaints, the more likely action will be taken against the criminal element. Just a thought. |
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Ms lady. They have husbands. The husbands know about the problem. Yes the women came to me, and only me to raise the issue officially, believe it or not. And as i said i did it because i want rid of these people too, the criminal type.
They did connect with other tenants male and female but came to me to contact management officially. My attitudeto women them is due to my experience of being used when they are bored or want 'friends' to tell their trouble to. Please do not presume to tell me why i want a girlfriend or how i am with a girlfriend.you do not know me. Just because i do not let people use me to pass their time does not mean i do not like or would not like someone who wanted me for me. People i meet are involved or else like the person i posted about before is not really attractive to me. I am restricted in going out much due to illness Anyone who wants friends should join the girl guides. I respect people who respect me. People who come to you only when they want something are not friends. And they do not respect you. I may have to be alone. I do not have to be taken advantage of Anyway it's with management and police now. So the ladies here can talk to them and i can bow out I do not have family to go to a park with and raise balloons i have been unable to go to my folks grave. Too depressed . My point is all these days are for people who have and are advertised as such. When have you seen an advert for valentines for example feature a depressed person. Marketing only wants shiny happy people. Last edited by Anonymous44430; May 11, 2020 at 11:03 PM.. |
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II is true that the more who complain the better and everyone has now. But they did come to me to make the first move. I doubt this criminal type situation will arise again when it is solved but now i will be ready if it does as i am prepared for any other approach by people like them. Management and police are on it now so i do not have to deal with these, 'friends' I am not interested in women who are married or involved in a relationship as these are. Why would i be?? Why would I want to be friends with someone who sleeps with someone else and only come to me when they want something. These women do not want to be with me on a Saturday night for example. And i am really not interested in them at all.. On a very cold evening in winter one who used to live here was visiting and was outside smoking when i arrived in the car park. She tried to engage me in conversation but i said hi and kept going. It was v cold and all she wanted was someone to talk to until her cigarette was gone and then she would be back inside with her husband. I don't want to engage with people like that. I would not be so sly and superficial if i were smoking in the cold Last edited by Anonymous44430; May 11, 2020 at 11:49 PM.. |
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I am here over 5 years. If i wanted to be friends with them i would have approached them Saying i attract needy people is trying to blame me for someone else's behaviour. It's their responsibility. I did not go to them when i was sick and in hospital 2 years ago. I dealt with it alone. They didn't want to know me then What i meant was i meet women who i like but who are in relationship or single but not interested. Or i meet people interested in me buy i am not attracted to them. I want someone i feel for who returns it. I stay away from friends zone. I think some women are v sly and will take advantage of Friends zone people. Friend zoners only want me when they want something, are bored like the cigarette in cold girl. They don't want to date me. If i am not good enough to date how could i be good enough to make representation for them? I would not let someone treat me like that. |
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I’d say Mother’s Day is to celebrate mothers. So it’s for mothers. It’s not really for people who have or don’t have mothers
I am sorry you are having hard time with finding a girlfriend. Dating could be very hard I don’t think neighbors took advantage of you because they are women and you are a man. Writing a letter is gender neutral activity. Maybe they knew you are a good writer or maybe they knew you were the most upset and would be willing to write. Maybe other people they approached refused to write the letter. Hard to tell I Am sorry you are struggling. This is a tough time |
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It seems like you're saying you don't want to ever be friends with a woman and are only interested if there's a romantic possibility. Personally, I have friends who are male and female, in relationships and single. I don't think it's wise to not want to be friends with someone because they are unavailable romantically.
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Why do you feel that women want to use you?
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i discovered they came to me re the criminal as they feared reprisal if they raised it.Does not matter if I suffer reprisal Some are married.Why would a married woman need to go to someone other than their husband? . Some are single parents. Where are the fathers of the single parent children who were scared? They are not my children If i were married my wife would not have to go to another man because i would look after her in such a situation as would be my duty. None of these people cared about me when i was in hospital 3 years ago.They don't come to me except when they want something. I am not good enough to date but only good enough to risk reprisal for them? I am hoping to leave this area.Either way they got told to solve their own problems in future |
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