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Poohbah
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Jun 04, 2020 at 07:19 PM
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Hi, it sure is! You're right about what you said! The negatives are outweighing the positives at this point! Now she's starting to only talk about herself in texts and she didn't even care that I was sick once, ugh! I think I'll need to end this one sided friendship! |
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Poohbah
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Jun 04, 2020 at 07:21 PM
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True. She isn't a good match for me anymore. A true friend treats their friends with respect. She doesn't respect my boundaries apparently. She stopped calling me as I started to ignore her. She has finally realized that she can't get her attention fix from me as often as she used to now. |
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Poohbah
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Jun 04, 2020 at 07:23 PM
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Hi, sorry to hear about your friend. How annoying! My friend sounds like your friend! She'll behave for awhile, then go back to repeating herself and interrupting me all the time. Ugh! |
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Jun 05, 2020 at 07:24 AM
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It doesn't sound like you want to be friends with this person...
Be kind to her, let her go so she can be with friends who want to hear her. __________________ "...don't say Home / the bones of that word mend slowly...' marie harris |
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Poohbah
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Jun 07, 2020 at 08:57 PM
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I'm not sure if she was ever really my friend. It just seemed like she used me to get attention. I'm done with her. I blocked her today since she wouldn't stop talking about the same thing again and again. She disrespected my boundaries and when I told her to stop, she told me I was lashing out at her and that she couldn't believe that my husband puts up with me and that I have anger issues, ugh! She kept on talking about pretending to be lesbians with her friends because only people who are related or living together can go out to eat now, and I said that I wasn't interested and that it's not necessary as no one will care, but she kept on going on and on about things. I don't have issues with gay, bi, trans, or whatever people, but omg, please stop when I don't want to hear it anymore! My other friend said the same thing, but she ignored her in the group text. We both thought it was inappropriate and that she's in the closet and that this is some weird test. |
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My Support Forums is the online community that was originally begun as the Psych Central Forums in 2001. It now runs as an independent self-help support group community for mental health, personality, and psychological issues and is overseen by a group of dedicated, caring volunteers from around the world.
So after that she didn't tell me that story again. But assuming I ever see her after we are all let out of our homes -- I am guessing she will eventually cycle back around to that same story. <--that is what I mean by some sort of persistence mechanism. 
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