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Default Oct 07, 2020 at 05:40 PM
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So as the title says, the more i learn the less i want to talk about anything at all, over the past 6 months i've learned that nobody cares about you if you are nothing and this did make me a bit sad at the time but im good now but i always think "Why should i bother talking, its not like its going to do anything".
For the record im in my last highschool year, and im a very open minded and spiritual individual, not the smartest but i wouldn't consider me dumb either, i like being alone very much so, and i have sensory processing sensivity.
And from what i've observed i do still talk but im always thinking "does this need an answer", "isnt the answer obvious", etc.
Im worried that something might be wrong with me since before this, i was pretty sociable.
Its just that i see no point in speaking at times.
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It sounds like you are developing and maturing. It’s actually ok to do more listening than talking too. We can learn more by learning to listen.
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But i was listening before too, and even thinking before i speak, but that would explain my episodes of being so afraid of what the future holds.
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Right now a high percentage of people globally are worried about the future. So what you are feeling is normal.
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So as the title says, the more i learn the less i want to talk about anything at all, over the past 6 months i've learned that nobody cares about you if you are nothing and this did make me a bit sad at the time but im good now but i always think "Why should i bother talking, its not like its going to do anything".
For the record im in my last highschool year, and im a very open minded and spiritual individual, not the smartest but i wouldn't consider me dumb either, i like being alone very much so, and i have sensory processing sensivity.
And from what i've observed i do still talk but im always thinking "does this need an answer", "isnt the answer obvious", etc.
Im worried that something might be wrong with me since before this, i was pretty sociable.
Its just that i see no point in speaking at times.
I feel the same way at times. I do think its good to talk to someone close to you from time to time. We have to give and take in relationships. If that is not happening then there will be problems down to line.
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