Assault?

M= Maintenance Head. She's not doing the actual work, herself. I am staying out of that sort of thing. It was just I suggested to have it done now, since it's currently empty and the worker is able to do it now.. at $13 a head.

No no. He wasn't pinned down. He was walking around with her sleeping on his shoulder, wanting me to take her or talk about the carport.

He's all talk. In this scenario, it wasn't about me or making me happy. That's just hogwash he was saying to make him out to be a supportive victim.

It's all ridiculous.. nonsensical.. power tripping.. over $13. I think my partner joined forces with his sister because he knew she wouldn't budge. It's fine she didn't want to pay but there was no compromise at all. He was ok with having them do it for free, but because of how it played out, he then said he didn't think it was necessary to do at all but was wanting to make ME "happy". I wasn't the only one who thought the floors "needed" to be done.

Floors are done. It looks much better.. but of course my partner had to point out that there's still stains on it.. that he spoke with the guy who said it's as best as he could do.

Lets not be positive over the fact that it's cleaner, someone else paid for it, and it's never been cleaned before. With the neighbours regular car leaks, what does he expect..?

Why not tell him, IF you really want to make me happy and want to see me happy, stop nitpicking and stop turning every interaction we have into a negative one.

Because he'll say that about me, instead.

He did admit that the rivalry against Maintenance was at the root of this. So I told him to be appreciative of the outcome because I'm not at all a part of that, and no one else had to pay for it.. to be kind. He said, it's done now. Lets move on with it.. just like all of his other BS, "The past is the past".

So the carport scenario was brought up again because I was curious if anyone said anything. He said no one did nor did he get any thanks.

I mentioned again, how no one was able to do it right away, something we previously agreed on, which is why I suggested for us to pay to get it done. Again, $13 ea. Not a lot of money.

He's suddenly wondering where I got the information about the neighbour not being able to do it before the end of August. Um, it's what he told me!! He completely denies it, though. He's the only person I discussed our options with. It's why I opted to pay the $50 myself, since I was told it wouldn't happen before then. Everything was already out of the carport. He's adamant he didn't tell me this AT ALL but says he "believes me" that I "heard" this but that he didn't tell me so. I must have "heard wrong". Where else would I've gotten the "probably not before the end of August", as this neighbour works M-F. Am I crazy? No. He forgot. He obviously didn't pass on accurate information about the timing so is now blaming me for hearing wrong.

This is typical in our arguments. He's a compulsive liar and shoots his mouth but often doesn't remember what he says.. and then denies, denies, denies.

I'm frustrated and venting. I'm disliking him more and more by the day.