Met a man on Bumble, he came over to my place last night

bpforever1 · Aug 25, 2020 at 05:36 AM

My Italian man and I are doing well!! He is being nice and told me not to go anywhere crowded. I like him but still he is quite nutty. He checks on me throughout the day. I wonder why? Anyways, the American man is sad but I told him directly no thank you. So, it ended with him. I just wanted to be friends but he could not handle the rejection. Strange fellow!! He said he liked honesty but got hurt by me. I don't feel good about it but realize the truth hurts sometimes. I am doing well still. I am still seeking women but have not found any body yet. Someone told me to return to the US to find a woman. But, that is not possible now. So, I will do without. I am happy nevertheless. My Italian lover is doing ok too. I think we are not good friends yet but am wondering sometimes he is nice and sometimes he is not because he is nutty. I like him so am dealing with his nuttiness. I am weird too so we are two nuts in a pod. Sometimes, I am not nice to him either sometimes because of weirdness. Life continues as the world turns.

bpforever1 · Aug 26, 2020 at 04:46 AM

Well, I'm meeting another man tonight in a neutral place. He is nice and decent. I shall see what happens. I have to work then go out. He is a computer programmer. I will talk to him some more and see where he is from but think he is American. We just met on okcupid and will meet tonight. I think he is looking for a lover and friend so it might be a good fit. The Italian man is too busy or not interested in hanging out with me. He may have another woman. So, I will keep searching for someone who is willing to hang out with me as well as be my lover.

bpforever1 · Aug 26, 2020 at 09:29 AM

The computer programmer was decent and nice and is American. He is more my type but don't know if he is really that into me. We shall find out soon. He is busy until next Tuesday so we shall see if he asks me out again. I will remain in contact with him and see what happens. We met at a bar and just chatted then he went home. We both have to work early so had to both go back to our respective places and sleep. For the first time, I had a decent conversation and the man did not want to just hookup. I am happy and hope he was too. I need to sleep now.

bpforever1 · Aug 27, 2020 at 05:54 AM

Well, the computer programmer and I have not contacted each other since last night so I don't think he is interested. He was saying he was looking for a rich older woman and , well, I don't fit the bill- no loss on my part. So, I am busy finding women and asked a woman to a bar. We are going out next weekend!! I am so happy and excited. She is femme and cute. I am happy! I am still in contact with the Italian man, but we are more like chat buddies now. It is ok. He seems interested in my stories. I think eventually I want to stay with only one person, not two. But, right now, I will focus on work until next weekend. I am really glad I asked the woman out for a date. She was happy too! Well, back to the grind again!

sarahsweets · Sep 01, 2020 at 03:45 AM

I should probably bow out of the discussion but I am truly trying to understand this thread? What are you looking for? Do you want a place to vent or advice? Do you want to make this thread like a personal diary sort of thing? Do you want other people to comment or offer opinions? There are no wrong answers to these questions I am just trying to understand what you are looking for.

bpforever1 · Sep 01, 2020 at 05:44 AM

Sarah sweets, I should close this thread because I am not seeking anything. I moved on and have opened another thread. Thank you for your concern!

bpforever1 · Sep 04, 2020 at 05:03 AM

I finally realized that focusing on my work and taking care of myself are more important than being with people who don't care about me. I will try to keep to myself and work for now. I think I may have been a bit hypomanic for awhile but am now doing ok.

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bpforever1 Magnate Member Since Aug 2017 Location: earth Posts: 2,063 6 1,598 hugs given	Sep 01, 2020 at 05:44 AM #66 Sarah sweets, I should close this thread because I am not seeking anything. I moved on and have opened another thread. Thank you for your concern!
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bpforever1 Magnate Member Since Aug 2017 Location: earth Posts: 2,063 6 1,598 hugs given	Sep 04, 2020 at 05:03 AM #67 I finally realized that focusing on my work and taking care of myself are more important than being with people who don't care about me. I will try to keep to myself and work for now. I think I may have been a bit hypomanic for awhile but am now doing ok.
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