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Sep 26, 2020 at 07:10 PM
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I am married and this has happened my whole marriage though. My husband likes to threatened me during times that he will leave me. Well recently I gained weight and he was unhappy and now weighs me on a weekly basis and told me again he will leave me if I don't loose a good bit of weight. He said I can't come around his family this christmas due to my weight.
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Sep 27, 2020 at 12:03 AM
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Yes, leave. His "love" is conditional - on the condition you do what he wants or else he will leave you. Get away from there.
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Sep 27, 2020 at 10:35 AM
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Yes. What a jerk. |
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Sep 27, 2020 at 05:35 PM
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I'd talk to a lawyer and start a divorce. YOU do not need to stay and be abused.
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Sep 28, 2020 at 12:51 PM
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This a abuse and you need to leave,
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Sep 28, 2020 at 03:20 PM
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This sort of ''love'' is highly conditional and is in fact abuse.
 Leave this jerk, please 
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Nov 13, 2020 at 11:39 AM
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I do not think you should leave. I do think you and him should go to the gym together if it will make you feel better.
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