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Oct 25, 2020 at 06:39 AM
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After +10years messing relationships up because of problems with focusing, self-care and caring for others, isolating like an hikikomori at 25/30+... I find myself panicking because i don't know how to reply to a person/friend who texted asking "how are you?" Including a big smile
I failed at life, what can I say Now Been unemployed for so long... how to tell it I had plenty of time to fix mi life a bit, i can't believe she (this person who texted me) "left" me in a bad condition years ago just to find me in a even worse situation today And I was the one who ran away from people I've been a ****ing black-hole Now she can visualize on whatsapp that I read her message but i don't know what to say Last edited by Gasplessy; Oct 25, 2020 at 07:15 AM.. |
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Oct 26, 2020 at 12:17 AM
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I'd be honest and say I really don't know how to answer that. I don't want to lie and say fine but I also don't want to overwhelm you with everything. How are you?
That leaves it open for her to either tell you I want to know what's going on or if she didn't want a full rundown then she can leave your answer as is. Good luck on whatever you decide to do 
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Oct 26, 2020 at 09:46 AM
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Oct 27, 2020 at 03:36 AM
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I think I am confused can you elaborate more?
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Oct 27, 2020 at 05:40 AM
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Now I'm finally paying for it Some people tried to contact me later but i'm so messed up they can't even imagine I live the mistake that I did as epiphanies I can't believe what I've been. |
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Nov 11, 2020 at 12:58 PM
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Just be honest. Always.
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