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Default Dec 14, 2020 at 01:59 PM
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You could vent to other people. You can’t really vent to those who caused you to have to vent in the first place! He won’t change who he is or admits anything.

I know it’s frustrating of course
I'm not venting per se.. that's the wrong way for me to put it. My apologies - what I meant is I am still unloading my anger on him.

And yes, it's MOST frustrating.

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I'm not venting per se.. that's the wrong way for me to put it. My apologies - what I meant is I am still unloading my anger on him.

And yes, it's MOST frustrating.
Does unloading your anger on him make you feel better? Just asking cause when I did it, it just made me more angry to the point of actually seeing red (which I thought was just a saying until I experienced it)

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Default Dec 15, 2020 at 11:25 AM
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Does unloading your anger on him make you feel better? Just asking cause when I did it, it just made me more angry to the point of actually seeing red (which I thought was just a saying until I experienced it)
It does make me feel better in the moment, but his responses to me make me angrier, so it's not as beneficial in the end. I see red too. It's not fun.

I have decided to stop all angry messages to him. He also won't reply to them anymore so it's pointless to keep it up.

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