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then he tried to tell me if were meant to be together, god will put us together. Really, he’s just too wild for me. I don’t like guys who have to party like that it’s my pet peeve...he acts like he’s 21....I don’t see him slowing down anytime soon. Even if we were friends and hanging...we have nothing in common anymore. I’m not living the rest of my days partying like this...there’s more to life
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There’s a show I like to watch, 90 Day Fiancé. This reminds me of a recent episode with Darcy and Tom, also over 40 y/o. Tom did the same thing ignoring her and dancing with other women and she was very upset. He had ego issues and was a hopeless player, and never married. You should watch it and try to laugh because it’s so ridiculous. You deserve better.
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He is for sure. I should have friend zoned him a long time ago. He talks crap about his exes, but he doesn’t know what to do with a mentally stable (mostly) woman. Don’t take your blessings foregranted
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Hi Disney!
I'd also recommend taking time to put down in writing all the bad qualities and ways you are disrespected. It can be VERY helpful when you are tempted to trust him. You are right, he will not change. People like that never truly do (maybe they can fake it for awhile, but their true nature WILL win out.) Good luck! Rooting for you! __________________ ********* Mr. Robot Makes me sick to the heart, Oh I feel so tired. And the way the rain comes down hard, that's how I feel inside. --The Cure
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No he doesn’t deserve it, but I didn’t really mean it literal, kind of as a metphor if that makes sense 🤷🏼*♀️
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It’s not his business who gains weight. Why is he even still a part of your life
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It’s just a really rude thing to say to someone, especially a man to a woman. It looks poorly for him. YOU may want to lose weight, but it’s rude for anyone else to say it to you.
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You know what Trish, thinking about it he would do all kinds of mean things. It’s no reflection of me but rather of his bruised ego & self esteem. I would tell him a million times I would like to go with him to one of the events that his friend (he has connections) would invite him to. Never once did I get invited, and his friends would always ask if I went! I’m sure they found it strange. Then when he went he would post pictures/stories on social media telling his other friend (female) to stop by in the comments. Even went as far as to send me a picture and to brag about how fun it was. Who does this?? Then he would gaslight me like something was wrong with me. I always thought “well maybe I’m overreacting” or too pushy etc..but my gut feeling was right..it was mean and he knew I would react, but I think he did it to keep me hooked and obsessed.
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What he did was, he would keep me guessing by giving me just enough attention to keep me interested. When I would start to pull back, then he starts giving me a lot of attention as if he’s interested. Load of crap. My friend said to tell him to go f himself lol 🤷🏼*♀️ I didn’t but he would deserve it. No wonder he can’t keep a girl
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