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You’d go there and stay all weekend cooking or what not and he’d be drinking like a fish either asleep drunk or high from heavy weed smoking or hungover or he had friends over and spend time with them. He ignited your phone calls and texts. You never described proper dating routine that men do when they like a woman. You said he never took you anywhere or did anything with you or for you. I don’t recall you sharing he showed any attention. How do you think men show attention? And how do you think other men behave when they show attention? It’s not attention at all |
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#43
He doesn’t know how to properly date anyone. Even his “crazy” exes. Now I can see why they went ballistic.
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#45
I am just concerned that what he was doing was enough for you to be interested in him. I hope you’ll not go for guys like him anymore
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I had young men take me out, but then not get serious. They’d call again, but inconsistently. Just when I’d meet someone else that I might have clicked if given a chance, they’d show up again and turn my head around, only to distance again. It was the immaturity of a guy who didn’t want to commit (at least not to me). I moved on from that and met someone ‘ready’. I hope this doesn’t come off too judgy— You made yourself too easy and available by hanging out at his house with no real dating. I hope you learn to not do that again with new men. Forget this guy, regardless. If the only men you are meeting do not ask you for an actual date, you are meeting men of a lifestyle that you should try to elevate yourself above. Look for better quality men. What can you be putting out that you are not attracting men who ask you for a real date? __________________ "And don't say it hasn't been a little slice of heaven, 'cause it hasn't!" . About Me--T |
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Sorry to damper your hope but have you been to the quality man store lately - it doesn’t exist and neither does a quality man. There are selfish people, selfish people with money and selfish people with more money. I am loosing faith in humanity, TBH
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#49
Well that simply isn’t the case. There certainly are quality people of either gender. Not everyone is selfish, with money or no money. I know many quality men. Now relationships might still not work or be still be difficult but it doesn’t mean there are no quality people
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#50
It is a pity that such a situation happened to you. I understand you're upset, but don't blame yourself. You trusted him, but he just doesn't rely on your trust. Because he's an idiot.
I think he has behaved badly enough, so you should not continue to communicate with him. Even if he apologizes very much and you forgive him, you have to remember that he will not change and will behave the same way. You're really right that it’s a bad idea to be friends with your ex. Especially if the relationship did not end well. |
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Trust yourself
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