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Default Mar 29, 2020 at 07:40 AM
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You are not responsible for how other people feel. Only how you feel.

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This week I got back into the secret a bit. You might argue that the universe conspired. I am driving into work due to corona and my audible secret book came up instead of my iTunes music and I just listened to it.

Once again it gave me a lot to think about.

I still struggle with the dysfunction of everyone else and maintaining a positive attitude but deep down... I think I know that is best for me.
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This week I got back into the secret a bit. You might argue that the universe conspired. I am driving into work due to corona and my audible secret book came up instead of my iTunes music and I just listened to it.

Once again it gave me a lot to think about.

I still struggle with the dysfunction of everyone else and maintaining a positive attitude but deep down... I think I know that is best for me.
I have not read the Secret but know it has the same messages as these Abraham Hicks videos.

Staying positive doesn't happen overnight but we will both get there with lots of practice via developing the right habits in our life. The habits might be a little different for everyone. Glad you feel like you know what is best for you. That means you are going in the right direction!
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That reminds me of how I feel when I'm following my instincts. Maybe that's not the same thing, though. Anyway, someone recently said to me, "Maybe our instincts are God's way of talking to us." I don't have enough megabites to do the Abraham Hicks YouTubes. So I'll have to read about them & wait till I get my computer to hear them first hand. Meanwhile, I enjoy these discussions. Thank you!
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That reminds me of how I feel when I'm following my instincts. Maybe that's not the same thing, though. Anyway, someone recently said to me, "Maybe our instincts are God's way of talking to us." I don't have enough megabites to do the Abraham Hicks YouTubes. So I'll have to read about them & wait till I get my computer to hear them first hand. Meanwhile, I enjoy these discussions. Thank you!
I typed the first third of the video so you can see more!

Man:.....Hello Esther......I had a few things, relationships with negative people, is that because you are attracting or could it be something that was before you started to do the law of attraction, like you're kind of trapped with somebody that's always negative.
Esther: What your question was just now is did I attract it deliberately or did I just attract it not knowing how the law of attraction works and the answer is you attracted it in this situation before you knew what the law of attraction was but you cannot attract something unwanted without holding holding the vibration of that a lot so really it doesn't matter how you got to that point, the question is what you're going to do now?
Man: It's kind of one of those things where I'll meditate, I get up and get in a good mood and first text is something bad so I'm driving along in a good mood going to work then this bad text comes up (This is not in the video but he sees a text while driving?)
Esther: Whether you're talking about your point of attraction in relationship to the whole world, in relationship to a work environment, in relationship to a personal relationship, whether it's the whole world that you are attracting from or one person -- it's still attraction, attraction, attraction and what we mean by that is whether it's the whole world or one person, there are things that when you focus upon them you feel good about and there are things that when you focus upon them you feel bad about. It feels a little confusing to you because in your scenario here, you were feeling good until they were not feeling good and then they dumped their not feeling good into your feeling good then you didn't feel good so it feels like they are the reason that you don't feel good but there was something that happened before any of that happened and that was you had a vibration of expectation about what you were going to get from that person. You know what's really an important thing to realize is that your vibration is where you last left it on every subject so since that's something that often happens, it comes to be a practiced vibration. That's what a belief is, it's a vibration or thought that you continue to think. Expectation and belief are just practiced thoughts. So the remedy is you've got to think other thoughts even though those are the most obvious, logical thoughts and that feels annoying, it makes you want to yell, "Why do I have to do the calibrating--that's the one causing the trouble." We say because you are the attractor to you. Sometimes you have to step back away from it; it's nice when you can get away but while you are away, if you can do something to get out ahead of your next encounter by activating in yourself deliberately things about that relationship. In other words, we can feel that you're not ready to walk away from that relationship. Sometimes you are. Sometimes you trip over something so many times and you calibrate so often...when someone in your world keeps giving you the residual stuff that you keep trying to clean it up eventually you will clean it up enough that one of two things will happen: either they will join you in your non-resistance or the law of attraction will bounce them off. But what happens to so many of you -- you don't like the idea of being bounced off from anyone even though they are miserable to live with...So rather than hold your own, and call them to you, you calibrate to them and complain about it. So you just sort of kind of have to decide that it matters to you enough to feel good that you're going to find a way to do it more and more...


My POV is that always calibrating to others is being too subservient for our own good--we can sort of lose ourselves. Of course, many of us were taught to do this and it is a balance, sometimes we must calibrate to others to be successful. Some people always expect others to calibrate to them. With some people, your vibrations might match well enough so that, you don't have to calibrate that often or to as big of a degree; however, IMO getting along with people well requires fine adjustments from both people.
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Thank you, TunedOut! I have been calibrating to people since I was 4 or 3 years old, or maybe earlier. To me, it was just a practical way of keeping things as safe as possible. And yes, I did lose myself, but into my own private world, my imagination, which has been such a wonderful blessing for me all my life. You went to a lot of trouble to type out all this for me. You are so kind & generous! I can't really express how I feel about that, except that my heart says we are lucky to know you. God knows how I feel, so I hope you will know through God.
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Sometimes I will say to myself that because of all the strength that God gives me, I don't need my medications as much. Then I remind myself that medical breakthroughs and innovations are God's blessings too.
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I know there are many sad things going on right now but there are silver linings to be found too. We don't know how what is going on right now will ultimately effect us but a lot will change. IMO, we can't control the outcome--our creator is in control and if we can try to let go (accept) and ride the wave (we can't control the ocean's waves) then this transition will be a lot easier on us.

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Thank you, TunedOut! Always look for the silver lining, & go with the flow. I tried the YouTube & saw the beautiful moon, but wasn't able to hear what was said. My cell phone doesn't do well for things like that. But I think I understand, & I feel your message is needed now, more than ever.
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I miss Breaking Dawn and hope she is OK.

My 2015 attempt was fueled by guilt. My prayers have delivered me from the guilt, anxiety, and shame.

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I have been reading the Bible a lot and thinking about all of the things I have said about Vibrations in this thread. It has been quite a journey, where I experimented with changes in my spiritual beliefs but now find myself returning to many of the original beliefs that I grew up with but with one main difference--that there is a spiritual plane or place where God, souls, and spirits exist seems more real to me now than ever before. My personal faith that there is an infinite God is stronger than ever before.

I am not so sure that the vibrations journey was all about God but when I mentioned that listening to Esther Hicks Youtube videos was helpful--at the time, it really was. Her teachings about thinking more positively, did help me feel less depressed when I was feeling down. Studies do show that positive people are healthier and can achieve other positive outcomes. There is some truth in we become what we believe. I think some of the reason she made me feel better was that I wished everything was as she says it is. For instance, she believes, "The basis of life is freedom; the purpose of life is joy; the result of life is growth." This is how I would like life to be for us all but sometimes we do have to follow rules and though life has many, many joys, there is sadness too. Some of these new age beliefs like we can manifest money if we just believe are not always what is meant to be. I do not have faith that I can manifest anything but I do believe that our thoughts are very powerful. After all, faith and hope are based on what we truly believe; however, I find I can think positively now without all this new age stuff. Even though I don't always meditate anymore and am mostly just reading and praying--my insomnia seems to be gone now and I have had very bad insomnia since I was a teenager. Since starting this thread, I have been evaluating a lot of stuff and wonder just what a psychiatrist or therapist would diagnose but I won't really officially ask. Too many stories on PC about people being diagnosed as needing help when they sounded saner than this thread probably does.....
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That was a good post tuned out!

Although Esther Hicks teaching sounds a bit cookoo to me lol there is a lot of wisdom in those words. If you wake up every morning and tell yourself that you’ll spend a day dwelling and ruminating over something sad from 50 years ago and you are going to be in pain all day, you likely will spend all day in bed crying and unable to function. But if you get up with intention of embracing what good stuff life has to offer today, you likely will have a satisfying accomplished day. We can’t change sad events but we sure can change our approach to life or at least seek help in achieving some type of balance

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I feel like I can relate to some of the things the guest on this video experienced: YouTube

When my daughter was in middle school, I began taking yoga classes with her at her dance studio. My daughter was doing meditation all of the time; for instance, when our family was on a walk out in nature, she would if we could stop so she could meditate a while. Later, we encouraged her to become a certified yoga instructor. I was finding I could put myself in a trance for awhile which fixed a lot of my anxiety. While posting on this thread, I learned how to use meditation to take naps (something I have never been able to do much of) and fall asleep easier. I began to think I was awoken and was trying awaken my chakra energy from the bottom of my spine to the crown of my head. Many of the astrology/horoscope readings talked about activating the energy at the base of our spine and the crown of our heads. Abraham Hicks talks often about using meditation to cure our discontent and to get in touch with our true vibration/essence. Some of the astrology readers suggest to pray to the angels for protect. I actually did this! I am now reading the Bible again and there are many places in the scripture where angels delivering messages to people say not to worship them. Satan was an angel. I am upset at myself for being so blind to what I should have known since I went to church as a child.

The one good thing that came from it is it heightened my awareness that there is a spiritual plane with real spirits that impact our world more than I realized. What I feel guilty about is how my ignorance of that world could have effected my children.
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Its not about vibrations. Its about faith.
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Its not about vibrations. Its about faith.
Yes, you are right. I was in a state of confusion throughout this thread but if the world has true mediums, prophets, etc. then there is also an almighty God. Our mind and body cannot "see" God but we also have a spirit just like God, the angels and the fallen angels. When my faith became stronger, things that had happened to me and my family began to make a lot more sense. I no longer feel lost and confused.
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