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Default Nov 05, 2018 at 10:00 AM
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I have so many goals especially financial but i decided my main goal needs to be saving for a car, though there are trips I want to take to nashville those will have to wait.

There's a home I want to buy, but a subsidized apartment I like has a super long waitlist. I'd much rather live with mom until that place comes available. So I don't have to move twice. If she dies I while living with her my brother says he'll use inheritance money to buy me a place.

I'll have my brother paid off next year than I can afford a car payment. Because mom will be paid back to. Just have to hope my car lasts another year. Kind of at the point I feel like it will never die. And debate about keeping it until it does. It's a nice but old car.

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I have so many goals especially financial but i decided my main goal needs to be saving for a car, though there are trips I want to take to nashville those will have to wait.

There's a home I want to buy, but a subsidized apartment I like has a super long waitlist. I'd much rather live with mom until that place comes available. So I don't have to move twice. If she dies I while living with her my brother says he'll use inheritance money to buy me a place.

I'll have my brother paid off next year than I can afford a car payment. Because mom will be paid back to. Just have to hope my car lasts another year. Kind of at the point I feel like it will never die. And debate about keeping it until it does. It's a nice but old car.
One goal only: p a y off debt then save!!!

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Default Nov 05, 2018 at 08:47 PM
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That's bad advice. You should always save because you will always owe. So practice the art of saving while paying your debts.

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