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Magnate
Member Since Oct 2013
Location: CO
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I ask this because my ex T never talked about my SH in depth. I'd tell him if I did it and if it was severe enough for stitches. He would ask if it needed medical attention. And we had talked a bit about why I do it but not in depth.
My pdoc (or old pdoc if he hasn't returned yet) will ask if I've SH since I saw him, and will always ask to see unless I say it's on my hips or lower abdomen. Even when I saw his boss a month ago, he asked to see as well. Maybe it's because they're nurse practitioners so they look to see if they're okay and don't need medical attention. This new T1 I'm seeing asked some questions about it that i wasn't used to from a T. He asked me yesterday stuff like what did I use to clean up, how do I take care of it afterwards, if it bothers me physically like walking.
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Member Since Oct 2019
Location: Philadelphia
Posts: 144
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Remember Plasma tattoo rules and blood banks if you need them. Please search for a more conscious reason to self harm to the point of stitches. Isn't drinking enough or weed?
My personal story.....Self Harm is to be the following if it helps with continuous occupational socialization despite what happened to you. Personal choice where a lie isn't interfering with integration. Say for instance, it made me better I concentrated it helped me move on because it would happen anyway (tapes can be addictive). As long as you don 't convince the community to do and be as crazy as you; has to be with similarities. For me, if they get into the igneous they are not worth it after this once co con is shared it prolly is time to say go get on ssdi because I know most folks have listened to rappers heavy metal they don't need to have this all the time. So when you get in healing u must gravity to spirituality because u could lie on the things that happen and think your making them stronger and really aren't ….. Please be careful around all survivors with dominatrix thinking this only to write stories ufc box and other things. Too much into trauma is like literal death for a system. We are disabled alters on a foot due to other reason this doesn't need dose of fear just need to know how we hide and disconnect thing possible. The only things I do is sniff a little bit of chemical, chew, hit the arm, face, complaining is the more acceptable one |
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Legendary Wise Elder
Member Since Jul 2018
Location: CA
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My t asks me a lot of questions about what is behind it? What's driving it? What are the motivating factors? Am I following my safety plan. She might ask if it needed stitches. She rarely asks to see. She might talk to me about how I'm feeling about it? What's my attitude about it? Pastor T just talks to me about stopping and my safety plan. Hope this helps. Hugs. Kit
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