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Default Apr 10, 2017 at 06:09 PM
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Im a 36 year old man and 100% straight but i am Obsessed with women wearing tights (pantyhose) and wearing tights myself. That's only a small part of my obsession !!! , am i normal ?
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Default Apr 11, 2017 at 11:44 AM
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Im not only Obsessed with women wearing tights and wearing tights myself, but i cannot stop myself from stealing womens tights and knickers at any opportunity .
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I don't think there is anything wrong with having a fetish for pantyhose. However, I think it is wrong to steal them from other people. We all have our own fantasies and desires, but breaking the law takes it too far. Please be careful.
 
 
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I have stolen so many pairs of tights and knickers from women that i know, i really Do not know how i have not been caught . I've had so many times that i could of been caught but cannot stop myself from stealing them .
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Default Apr 11, 2017 at 12:05 PM
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I suggest you see a therapist. It only takes one time getting caught to have a criminal record that could really affect your life in a negative way. Get help while you can!

When you are tempted to steal from women, try to think about how you would feel if someone stole from you. Probably not very good, right?
 
 
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I don't think there is anything wrong with having a fetish for pantyhose. However, I think it is wrong to steal them from other people. We all have our own fantasies and desires, but breaking the law takes it too far. Please be careful.
What would you Do if you caught your boyfriend or husband wearing your tights ?
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What would you Do if you caught your boyfriend or husband wearing your tights ?
Well I recently broke up with my ex. But if we were together, I would first be concerned because they would be too small for him and would be worried about them ripping. Especially the nice, expensive, lacy underwear!

Aside from that, it wouldn't be my cup of tea personally but if he wanted to go out and buy his own and wear them for fun/comfort/whatever, I'd be fine with it. But it certainly would not turn me on. I try not to judge personal preferences as long as the aren't harmful to anyone else!
 
 
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What would you Do if you caught your boyfriend or husband wearing your tights ?
I think I'd have been ok with that as long as it wasn't always that way, just occasionally, as long as he was faithful to me and not cheating.

The stealing women's panties is concerning behavior because it can escalate to more and violence, maybe rape and murder.

But a harmless panty fettish is ok and there are plenty of hetero men that have it, I'd assume.

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Default Jun 14, 2017 at 10:38 PM
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It is normal, my wife always buys me tights which we use as sex games as part of our cuckolding fantasy
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Default Jun 21, 2017 at 08:34 AM
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I can feel the tension in your first post... Breathe, for real, breathe...

In fact sit in a quiet place and just breathe for 5 minutes. This might be the first time you've ever tried to slow down your mind.

I really think most of us who have some kind of porn or sex or fetish habit are self medicating for anxiety or depressive thoughts. It's a distraction, a release, and it makes our brains and bodies feel good.

Who knows why you like tights? Does it matter? It's your thing. Way back you probably have some connection to seeing a sexy woman in tights in your early years. The first playboy I saw was full of women wearing lingerie and stockings. I think that set the stage for me. I love legs and stockings.

The risk taking behavior of stealing is actually a thing too. As for wearing tights, do you wear them out in public, out of sight? Is that a risky behavior too?

Risky behavior brings its own wash of brain chemicals that make our brains feel good.

Just breathe, slow down, and think about how you feel when you see a woman in tights, or you see tights alone, or when you feel them on you. And here is the key... THINK ABOUT IT AND DON'T JUDGE YOURSELF WHILE THINKING ABOUT IT.

Just breathe, relax, be safe, and try to identify what you are feeling at those times.

The one behavior you really have to focus on is the stealing. Too risky. When you get that urge, try to breathe your way through it.
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Default Sep 16, 2017 at 08:27 AM
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Dear Opaquestorm. I share your anxiety and frustration. There is, however, nothing wrong with liking women wearing tights. I'm not a fan of bare legs. Nothing I like better than to see a woman wearing tights and I wear them too, but going to the extreme of stealing them. No way! I totally agree with scaredandconfused. Be careful! If you continue this pattern, you "will" sooner or later be caught. Seek help! The last thing you want is a criminal record. Think of the shame it would bring upon you and your family. You don't have to steal tights. There are so many online outlets like eBay or Amazon where you can them. The packaging is discreet. It is not a criminal offence for a man to wear tights or any other female clothing items. If found out you won't be placed on the sex offender's register. I have taken the plunge and told family members and immediate friends that I wear tights. If you are in a relationship, tell your partner. Be honest with her.
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i love wearing pantyhose they are great to make out in or have a bondage sex with which i do often with my pantyhose i love sitting on other people faces and smother them or ride there faces while wearing pantyhose with other outfits.
 
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i love wearing pantyhose they are great to make out in or have a bondage sex with which i do often with my pantyhose i love sitting on other people faces and smother them or ride there faces while wearing pantyhose with other outfits.

So you like doing to others what your step mother did to you?
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So you like doing to others what your step mother did to you?
only if the other person is up for it and they have to be over 18 years old
 
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Default Sep 09, 2018 at 07:56 AM
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I love pantyhose and tights. I've found the seamless pantyhose and tights feel far more comfortable. They really look a lot better too. I have no idea what got me started wearing them. I wish I could wear them in public. I only wear them under my pants. If I'm alone I'll wear them around the house. I do wear them to bed. I sure hope I'm normal? Will it ever come a time when the public accepts the fact men wear them?
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Trig Apr 23, 2019 at 05:50 AM
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same here. started young
Tried a pair of heels. loved it.
that was age 9.
then progressed to everything but make up.
i kept it secret.until I told my girlfriend
she was cool with it.
then she raped me .

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they're guys like you.
your not alone

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Default Apr 25, 2019 at 10:48 PM
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instead of stealing the pantyhose, you can try asking for it maybe? or maybe you can offer to buy pantyhose from them? you can say that you have a friend who feels a bit short on clothing and wants some pantyhose. that technically wouldn't be lying if you're your own friend . . .

Or you can buy some pantyhose, let a female temporarily borrow it, and then get it back from her.

stealing could get you in trouble eventually, and leaves you vulnerable. I've had my share of risky fetishes too. but I avoid them because they can get me in legal trouble. there are usually legal counterparts though. like for instance, if I want to touch women, I can probably be a licensed masseur; but I rather not. Too much work: I'd just keep my hands to myself.


aside from human contact, you can probably search the internet for images of women wearing pantyhose. there are some fashion videos on youtube pertaining to that too, i think

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Default Jun 08, 2020 at 09:25 PM
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Here are some photos of me wearing tights and other women's clothes and shoes that I have stolen from women and my step daughters.
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I have stolen so many pairs of tights and knickers from women that i know, i really Do not know how i have not been caught . I've had so many times that i could of been caught but cannot stop myself from stealing them .
Another issue I have is that I cannot stop fantasizing about one of my ex step daughters. She is 19 years old now and has turned into an absolute sexy and stunning looking girl and she has an amazing body. I am always fantasizing about her and when I see her and I'm around her I have to try my hardest not to look at her to obviously and make things weird.
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