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Default Aug 02, 2018 at 08:23 PM
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Hello everyone. I am 24, married, and have one child. These past few years I feel like I've been coming into myself. It's HARD to explain. The way I look at it is there is ME and there is HER. SHE is like a lustful demon on my back, attaching herself to my spine more and more each day. An animal, sex crazed, unstable, provoked by anything (fear, happiness, sadness, anger, nervousness, inadequatecy), and she's a masochist. I feel like I can't get sex or ANYTHING sexual off my mind for more than a second and I need to have it everyday, even multiple times a day. My husband satisfies me fine, but I'm not getting nearly as much as I crave. I don't talk to him much about it because I try to compromise with his "normal" sexual behavior. But sometimes it just takes me over. If she doesn't have her way I get moody and angry, I sometimes push him away or make rude comments then I feel so bad afterwards...until my appetite comes back then I'm angry all over again. She just wants to go free, let loose, exhale, be everything she can. It's like an anticipated high. I LOVE MY HUSBAND and would do nothing to hurt him, but if this has so quickly grown into what it has become, I'm afraid how much further it could go. It feels like I can never get enough and nothong will ever be enough. I've done strange inappropriate yhings and I don't want to be that person. Sometimes i feel so out of control and I want yo set my she devil free. Someone please tell me what I'm dealing with
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Hello Menotshe: I see this is your first post here on PC. So... welcome to PsychCentral! I hope you find PC to be of benefit.

Another forum, here on PC, that may be of interest would be the relationships & communication forum. Here's a link:

https://forums.psychcentral.com/rela...communication/

Here are links to some articles, from PsychCentral's archives, on the subject of sex addiction:

What Is Sexual Addiction?

Symptoms of Sexual Addiction

Symptoms of Hypersexual Disorder (Sex Addiction)

An Overview of Sexual Addiction & Sex Addicts

https://psychcentral.com/lib/sex-add...-a-mans-issue/

https://psychcentral.com/blog/how-ar...nt-from-males/

https://blogs.psychcentral.com/sex-a...ut-of-control/

And then here's a link to an article written for partners of sex addicts:

https://psychcentral.com/lib/faqs-fo...addicts/?all=1

My best wishes to you both...
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Thanks for all the extra help
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Default Aug 03, 2018 at 03:59 PM
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Skeezyks, are you an addict yourself? Or are you just on to give support?
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Default Aug 05, 2018 at 11:25 PM
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I'm an addict, it sounds very similar to my own life. My other person never seemed to get enough sex. Always wanting one more partner. Wanting to be loved, cared for but wanting to be tied up. She wants what I don't want. I want love, not lust.

Today I am 24 days clean from all addictive behaviors. It's been hard it's taken 2 years or more to get this under control. If you can get this under control. It's tough. I want to be loved but I don't want to let that person out. Worst of all I'm single. I find that the answer is spiritual. Connecting to my good side helps a lot. If you need any thing, I'm here for you. You are not alone!
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You're so sweet . Thanks for the warm message and the same goes to you. I feel like everyone in the forums are at different stages with their addiction(s). I myself am in the beginning. I feel I am here to prevent myself from going any further with my behavior. Right now everything is just an inward struggle, an everyday fight...and I'm trying to keep a lid on myself so that it never gets passed that. I'm learning a lot here.
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I'm glad you're learning a lot. It's best to catch an addiction early. Good luck and happy posting.
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