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Default Jan 07, 2020 at 04:17 PM
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I'm sorry you haven't found the advice/support you were hoping for.

My own response to your thread and probably that of others was your seeming lack of caring about how this would affect your potential wife.

I read how for you "it was only a piece of paper". That is an honest feeling. However, there is no mention that your potential wife feels the same way. Just you. You don't even have the testicular fortitude to tell her. You "think" she knows. Huh?

I wish you the very best, but do hope you can find a solution where *both* of you find happiness.
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If you come back and read, I hope you would seek therapy. A professional could help you the best. they might suggest couples counseling.
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Default Jan 08, 2020 at 07:43 AM
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Have Hope, I am not minimizing anything, I have admitted I have a problem that I want to overcome.

I do not want the others to tell me "it's not bad", but only seeking for more understanding of this problem/addiction, and more advices and positive vibe on how can I overcome my problem and have a normal fulfilling life with my partner.

I searched on internet "sex addiction forum" to receive support and advices on how to overcome my problem from people that are aware of this condition and know what does it means.

This forum was one of the first in the research, but sadly I see the members here are not specialized therapists, but normal people that faces problems like me.

Just that I don't really see members here that shares the same addiction as me or have done extensive research concerning this problem.

That's why, even tho I thank you for your opinions and I have read them all (I have gotten also a couple of good advices from some users), I will stop this conversation and try to go on other forums/website where this problem is more made aware/the members are more informed about the topic.

It's like me, without really knowing about problems like adhd, depression, bipolar etc I start making comments on forums like "why you ignoring your partners every 2 weeks?! do you know how difficult is for your partner to be ignored all the time like this? you are not emotionally available to your partner, you should have told him you have this before getting married. that's not normal, you should see a therapist" = no real advice, only putting blame, without taking in consideration that the person with the problem admits it, and for sure does not want to have it

I wish you all the best. I admit I have a problem, I want to stop it and I will go on dedicated websites/support groups for sex addiction.
If you are still reading on here, I am glad you know it's a problem and glad to hear you wish to overcome this so you can have a wonderful and fulfilling future with your fiance/wife.

And I'm glad to hear you will seek other support and guidance with this issue.

I do think a professional will be better treatment for you than support forums and websites. A professional will know best how this can be resolved.

I wish you nothing but happiness and a bright future.

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Default Jan 08, 2020 at 03:41 PM
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Thank you, to you too all the best I wish you!
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Default Jan 10, 2020 at 11:56 PM
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let us know how it goes>
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