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Default Apr 25, 2020 at 03:21 PM
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Hello everyone,

I am a straight man who has a very active sex life and who loves nudity. I know most people like to being naked in their home but my situtation is a bit more different. I only watch one sided nudity porn like cmnf, cfnm, public nudity, naked exhibiton etc. and I like to play cfnm fantasy with the girls I hooked up with. But my masturbation fantasies are getting darker and more intense day by day. My nudity slipping to exhibiton,flashing and being the only one naked in a group doesnt matter men or women. I always find myself in my fantasies, being the only one naked with a woman, group of women, or group of men. Actions involved are stripping, flashing, gropping, fingering etc. I tried to naked masturbation for random strangers on cam sites but it bothers me so much and I couldn't continue. It is good only in my dreams and fantasies but on the other hand I want to do this for many people and in many scenarios, such a dilemma?
I want to find the origin of this fantasy because my masturbation is much more intense than normal sex and would like to konw if anyone having similar situtation.
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Hello darknudist: I don't believe I can be of any help with this. I think it may be something that would best be explored with the help of an experienced mental health professional. Perhaps there will be other PC members who will have some thoughts they'll want to share. However I noticed this is your first post here on PC. Welcome to Psych Central. I hope you find PC to be of benefit.

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Default Apr 28, 2020 at 12:51 AM
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Hey Darknudist, welcome to PsychC! I concur with Skeezy, your best bet is going to be in exploring this with a good therapist, imo. But, if and when you decide to go that route, we can try to discover some avenues for you to explore with them. So, I got some questions, please forgive me if they're too personal. When you're exploring these fantasies and masturbating, are you using only your fantasy or do you usually supplement this with pornography? The reason I ask is because research is starting to show that pornography can "hijack" your neural pathways, which can lead to masturbating while viewing porn being more stimulating than the real deal. This is what happened to me, and is one of the reasons I'm working on kicking my porn addiction.
You also described your fantasies as getting "darker". Could you elaborate on what you mean by that in greater detail? Do you mean the intensity of the desire for it or are the fantasies becoming more extreme in, say for example, the context?

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