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Default May 20, 2012 at 07:27 PM
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im 25 and im still a virgin
waiting for the right guy to come along for me to love
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Default May 21, 2012 at 01:09 AM
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...so the questions is who is the oldest virgin on pC, not sure, BUT its looking like you honey! Do you ever want to get married or anything?
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Default May 21, 2012 at 01:53 AM
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Default May 22, 2012 at 02:36 PM
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For those of you who are still virgins stay that way until marriage. It is really awkward for me when I happen to see the two guys I was with and I'm bound to them spirtiually for life. There is a reason God said to wait until marriage. He knows how powerful it is because He created it to be that way and He is trying to protect us not ruin our fun.
Very wise......wish more people felt & believed this way.

I was married & had a kid....so definitely NOT.....but I don't believe in sex out of marriage or with anyone but your husband......so will not be having sex any time in the future & have no regrets about it either since I believe what God says is to protect us & not to ruin our fun either.

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Default May 22, 2012 at 02:53 PM
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How long do you have to go without sex before you become a virgin again?

And Illegal Toilet I get your line of thinking that you would rather kiss a woman than have sex.... I keep having this fantasy about just holding hands with a woman.. well it's a bit more specific.. I'm not holding her hand, she is holding my hand, if that makes sense.

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Default May 22, 2012 at 03:00 PM
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I've had sex with a few women, I'm not spiritually bound to them. I don't regret it. It's life lived as I want to, not how some people believe a fictional character has told me to. I'm in a 4 year relationship with a woman who I love, who I am not married to and have a 2 year old daughter with. Waiting for marriage is as outdated as the beliefs from which it comes.
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Default May 22, 2012 at 09:13 PM
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I was a virgin until last year (I'm 27). I only did it that time and never spoke to the guy again. I don't regret it at all, but it sucked and wasn't anything like it was supposed to be. Maybe I should try women? *shrug*

I like girls more but having avoidant personality disorder keeps me from being with ANYONE no matter what their gender.
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Default May 23, 2012 at 06:48 AM
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How long do you have to go without sex before you become a virgin again?
Without being reincarnated? You don't...
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Default May 23, 2012 at 07:29 AM
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I know it is considered shameful to admit that youare a virgin nowadays-but I think, it is very good.
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Default May 24, 2012 at 07:16 AM
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Please. I'm 36 and still a virgin. And not because I want to be.

I think it's mostly because I'm a disabled transsexual man who is gay and gets so worked up about relationships that I can't function when I'm in one. I don't have casual sex. I've met absolutely no one in the gay community who wants to actually LOVE a transsexual.

Basically, I'm giving up, too. I hate my life. I hate being gay. I hate relationships. And I've even been seriously considering suicide because of all this. Oh well, just one more leech on society dead... just another loser gone. No one will miss him.

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Default May 25, 2012 at 10:43 AM
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I don't get why this question would be considered unimpertinent on a psychology forum. On Ebay's miscellaneous forum, yes, but here?

I disqualified for this in college, but I'm older and have never been married and have had a life of solitude with much less sex than desired , and it's embarassing when people, such as nosy coworkers, inquire then make rude comments. Family who know about my lack of sex seem to gloat about getting their fill, but it's not really anything to brag about considering all of the miserable ugly people out there who have sex on a daily basis. It's kind of like bragging about having four wheels on your car.
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Default May 27, 2012 at 04:36 AM
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I'm 26. hmm, I don't really hold any shame about sharing. It doesn't really matter to me (when I finally lose it), but it does seem to bother other people. I've had people ask me if I am 'saving myself', lol. I'm not. I'm just not particularly interested...have no real urging to do anything. I consider myself to be an asexual.
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Default May 29, 2012 at 12:14 AM
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19. No rush for me. I've plenty of time, despite what the twilight of puberty and my raging hormones want to tell me about it.

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Default Dec 01, 2012 at 10:11 PM
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I.Toilet, Sorry but you're not a virgin. How can you be ? You've had sex. So what, it was boring, it still happened. Why delude yourself ?
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Default Dec 03, 2012 at 01:08 AM
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Probably.
do you want to have any childeren?

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Default Dec 03, 2012 at 05:49 AM
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Im 17, virgin and proud!

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Default Dec 06, 2012 at 03:06 AM
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I am 27 and asexual. I just can't even comprehend doing it. I also don't want kids because my illnesses can be passed along more easily plus all the stress that comes from taking care of a child.

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Default Dec 07, 2012 at 04:52 AM
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I know the question wasn't directed at me, but if this is where this topic's going, I'll throw in my two cents. I don't want children and I'm glad I haven't had children. I like kids (to a point, and as long as they're behaving, or if they do something funny that the parents have to clean up and I don't!), but raising them is hard. I also couldn't afford them. I feel freer not having children and have no regrets. However, when I was in the 5th grade, I told my friends that someday I'd have "8-10 kids, maybe as many as 14." No foolin'!

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Default Dec 07, 2012 at 08:14 PM
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^^^ I dont want any kids. Like Maven said, they are hard work!

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Default Dec 13, 2012 at 11:01 PM
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How long do you have to go without sex before you become a virgin again?

And Illegal Toilet I get your line of thinking that you would rather kiss a woman than have sex.... I keep having this fantasy about just holding hands with a woman.. well it's a bit more specific.. I'm not holding her hand, she is holding my hand, if that makes sense.
I went without sex and without masturbation for three and a half years and my new partner said about me with all that "Wow, this is like taking a virgin".
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