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Aug 31, 2012 at 04:10 PM
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im bi. my bf is not. we enjoy discussing the hotness of people on tv and whatnot. as far as our relationship goes, he is all for me doing another chick, especially if i get it on tape. he is also for me bringing back said chick to our place for a 3some. we had a discussion over 10 years ago about an open relationship, but we were both high. i dont know if he remembers, but i operate under the presumption he does. ive had a one night stand that was a guy and he didnt seem to care at all. i dont care what he does with women but id prefer if he brought them back to share. all in all its kind of a **** whoever you want situation.
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Aug 31, 2012 at 04:41 PM
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I'm pansexual which is just like bisexual but includes transexuals and transgenders. It doesn't matter to me what gender or sex or what genetalia you have. I am in a committed relationship with my boyfriend and I wouldn't ever do anything sexual with another person because we are in a closed relationship. I would love my boyfriend no matter what gender he was. I can tell him, I think this or that woman is hot, or cute, and will watch porn but nothing beyond that.
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Sep 03, 2012 at 03:34 AM
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I'm bi. But in a committed relationship with my bf. I do fantasize about other woman though, and often do wonder if I'd be happier with another woman.
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Sep 05, 2012 at 07:44 PM
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I am bisexual and my thing is I am very open with any partner I have. I have a rule when I am with a guy I am fine with us having a threesome with another girl but I have to pick the girl and there is certain things I look for in a girl. If my guy tries to bring someone to have sex with us than it is probally going to be a no unless she meets every standard I have and yes I am very picky about the girls I let in my bed with me and my man. I have never met a man who has a problem with me having sex with another girl. Most guys have said as long as I can watch or join than they are ok with it. I am ok with it. I guess you just have to open with your partner and see how they respond most girls are surprised to find out how their man reacts. Most guys are good with it though. I guess to them its like having their cake and eating it too.
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Sep 13, 2012 at 01:09 PM
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I don't understand why it's ok to cheat on your partner.
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Sep 13, 2012 at 01:24 PM
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BUT, cheating implies that it was a monogamous relationship. It's not really considered cheating if its an open relationship in some way, like what seems to be the case with a lot of the posters here...so if everyone involved is ok with it, then go for it. Anyway, I don't understand why a thread about bisexuality has become "Let's share stories about how we are with both genders even while in a relationship. Hooray stereotypes!" 
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Sep 13, 2012 at 06:19 PM
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When i first replied to this post i was trying to suggest ways in which people who are bisexual could deal with their urges - just because you're in a relationship with a man or a woman it doesn't mean you don't fantasize about doing things with other men or women (well i know i do) - straight people do this too. It doesn't mean you wish to be unfaithful. I think theres been a lot of misunderstanding in this thread. Im sorry if i contributed to this.
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Sep 17, 2012 at 08:40 AM
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I'm bi but no one knows
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Sep 20, 2012 at 03:04 AM
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i love women i do not use the word bi anymore and i do have a bf. i miss being with women my first gf ruined my love/experience with women and i think i have healed now we were both at fault in some things but she is at fault more than me.
my bf and i talked about an open relationship for me to have a gf. i had a gf first one 3 yrs ago and i was mad about her too but it lasted for 2 months. i would do it again but someone who needs to be more...mature |
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Sep 20, 2012 at 03:15 AM
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Ladytiger - your story sounds a lot like mine, except I can still get very turned on by girl-on-girl porn or even some girls IRL
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Sep 21, 2012 at 11:41 PM
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I'm really turned on by girl's I am so frustrated want to do things with a female so bad right now
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Sep 30, 2012 at 07:55 PM
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I am still trying to figure this out myself. When I am in a relationship my homoerotic fantasy deminishes, when I am single it spikes to the point of obsession. I have recently reconnected to my former female paramour and love her with all my heart but that same fantasy has not dissipated this time around. I am concerned what this means while we were separated I really thought I was closet bisexual, I am confused and frustrated but I would never cheat on her and I never cheated on any of my former girlfriends when I was fortunate enough to have one.
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Oct 05, 2012 at 06:35 PM
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I have periods where I find myself strongly attracted to women to the point where I'm distressed about it. I've been with my bf for four and a half years.
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Dec 18, 2012 at 09:48 PM
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I find it hard for me to be in relationships being bisexual because when I'm with a girl I want a guy and vice versa. Maybe I just haven't found the right person yet because I never feel satisfied. I've ended every relationship I've been in because I have no idea what I want or what's actually going to make me happy. 34 and I am still not technically out yet because I don't know where my head is at still. Male female transgender its all the same for me which I guess gives me more options but I am still struggling and not happy
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Dec 21, 2012 at 04:37 AM
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I had no idea they called in pansexual. But I guess I'd be it, since I been lusting about Dana International since I first seen her performance of Diva in that weird bird dress on Eurovision. 
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Dec 21, 2012 at 09:52 AM
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I've never been in a relationship myself, but it''s a lot easier for me to deal with it since I'm generally more attracted to women than men.
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Dec 27, 2012 at 09:55 AM
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MORDECAII----
It can be difficult and trust me I know because I've been on a little bit of both sides before. I was in a 'relationship' where the best name for me would be the 3rd wheel. It was okay in the beginning and eventually trust issues took over the entire situation. On my part a little, mainly her part and her boyfriend just was unsure if that situation was really one I wanted to be in. Now for me being a bisexual female in my own committed relationship, I've talked to him about it and he knows I'm attracted to women...sometimes encourages me to find someone. From time to time I have urges and I mean STRONG urges but I refuse to give in and find the real thing. Porn is just fine. Simply because I don't want to tarnish or complicate our relationship and bring in someone who may develop serious feelings towards me or even both of us...because I've been there before. It is VERY tricky but as long as you have an understanding and the freedom to express yourself whether it's going to the strip club together from time to time, setting up a one night stand (obviously whatever is agreeable with your own comfort level) that understanding between you and your current partner is essential. |
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