Ladies Take on Male Sexual Stamina?

bighands · 04:15 PM

Ok Ladies,

I need you help. There are drugs and exercise regimens that are supposed to improve a mans sexual stamina (ability to engage in sex for longer periods before reaching climax). The exercises are supposed to increase the strength of a male erection. My question is, have you all found that the strength of a man's erection is proportional to his stamina? Simply, if it sticks at the ceiling can he last longer?

Thoughts? Any input is appreciated.

LiteraryLark · Jul 03, 2012 at 10:37 PM

I think it's all in your mind. I've never had sex, but couldn't you just hold off from reaching a climax until after you've made your partner climax?

Trippin2.0 · Jul 04, 2012 at 12:06 AM

In my experience the opposite is true. The harder he is, the faster he cums. But... But.... I have zero experience with performance enhancers, so idk about that.

bighands · Jul 04, 2012 at 01:25 AM

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Originally Posted by DrSkipper

I think it's all in your mind. I've never had sex, but couldn't you just hold off from reaching a climax until after you've made your partner climax?

Haha! "It's all in your mind"! That's a good one. You should put that as the first sentence of every post on this particular website.

Typo · Jul 04, 2012 at 09:56 AM

It is about having the self control to stop from cumming. My bf paces himself and slows down if he gets close to climax if we want to go Longer.

laralula · Jul 04, 2012 at 11:09 AM

bighands how is the stamina in his tongue? lol... or get some toys... be creative

LiteraryLark · Jul 05, 2012 at 10:18 PM

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Originally Posted by bighands

Haha! "It's all in your mind"! That's a good one. You should put that as the first sentence of every post on this particular website.

That's pretty much what I tell everyone here...

But what I meant is, my best guy friend and I were planning on having sex and he told me he can control when he cums so that he can wait till after I orgasm.

unaluna · Jul 05, 2012 at 11:25 PM

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Originally Posted by DrSkipper

But what I meant is, my best guy friend and I were planning on having sex and he told me he can control when he cums so that he can wait till after I orgasm.

...and I bet he has a bridge he can sell you, too (that's an ooooolllldddd joke). let me just say - I doubt it

bighands · Jul 06, 2012 at 06:23 AM

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Originally Posted by hankster

...and I bet he has a bridge he can sell you, too (that's an ooooolllldddd joke). let me just say - I doubt it

That's what I was thinking. Men online always say they can control when they come. I say "How"? Share this wealth of knowledge.

My wife is on meds that make it hard for her to have an orgasm. So, she likes hard, fast thrusting to get there but that's very hard to maintain for long without cumming. Sure, I can use oral or vibrators to get her there but it would also be nice if we could get there through intercourse like in the past.

LiteraryLark · Jul 06, 2012 at 09:52 AM

No, he's not an online friend, he's my best guy friend and I've known him for years.

Ummmmm he's not mentally ill? It's called being a gentleman, pleasing the ladies before pleasing themselves. A LOT of men can hold themselves I don't see how that could be hard. My bff's bf can hold it too.

Trippin2.0 · Jul 06, 2012 at 10:48 AM

DS, If you've never had sex, how are you sure A LOT, of men can hold it?

I agree that Typo's bf has an effective technique, I've taken part in it, pacing does help, but then again, every person AND situation is different...

unaluna · Jul 06, 2012 at 11:08 AM

I would also say, watch what you wish for, you might get it. the opposite situation, where the man does not ejaculate, is not as much fun as it sounds, either.

so IME, practice makes perfect, but I find if I "lay off" for a while, what used to be "the spot" has shifted to someplace else. That was a welcome surprise! I don't know if I broke the old spot or what, but the new spot works just as well! Honestly, I didn't think i'd ever switch spots! so lube up and look for other spots in the neighborhood, so to speak - women have like jillions of nerve endings, much much more than men.

LiteraryLark · Jul 06, 2012 at 11:25 AM

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Originally Posted by Trippin2.0

DS, If you've never had sex, how are you sure A LOT, of men can hold it?

I agree that Typo's bf has an effective technique, I've taken part in it, pacing does help, but then again, every person AND situation is different...

I ask......

Trippin2.0 · Jul 06, 2012 at 11:43 AM

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Originally Posted by DrSkipper

I ask......

and that's a valid way of trying to source info. I just find it hard to believe that many or any would admit to being a 2minute noodle. Of cors they're going to say they can control it, and last all night, yadda yadda yadda. Their pride is at stake... Guess my point is just, that when it comes to something like this, you don't know until you know, testimonials don't hold much weight.

LiteraryLark · Jul 06, 2012 at 11:45 AM

I don't believe a man doesn't have any control over his penis.

unaluna · Jul 06, 2012 at 12:49 PM

Good luck with that.

Trippin2.0 · Jul 06, 2012 at 01:04 PM

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Originally Posted by hankster

Good luck with that.

LMAO

it's ok tho, I think unpleasant suprizes build character, and cements certain relationships.

unaluna · Jul 06, 2012 at 01:10 PM

it's the journey, not the destination, right? i've had my journeys, i'm pretty much at my destination

DS hasn't even started hers, so what can we do but wish her fun and good fortune!

Trippin2.0 · Jul 06, 2012 at 01:16 PM

My sentiments exactly, you just managed to word it perfectly

granted, I'm probly nowhere near the end of my journey, but there were way more twists and turns and missing road signs on mine. So I've covered a hellava lotta more ground than my peers... But yes, wish her well we do.

hamster-bamster · Jul 09, 2012 at 10:21 AM

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Originally Posted by hankster

I would also say, watch what you wish for, you might get it. the opposite situation, where the man does not ejaculate, is not as much fun as it sounds, either.

I was in this situation once, long in the past, and it is downright horrible. Cannot agree more.

I also do not find it abnoxious if the male ejaculates fast. It might just show his level of desire, especially if it is first time sex together or first time after a long break. As long as he does not fall asleep but goes on to please his lady via other means after his orgasm, it is OK, to me! Of course, I understand the OP's situation which is NOT described as first time together. OP, I hope you will find a solution.

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LiteraryLark Crowned "The Good Witch" Member Since Jun 2009 Location: Wonderland Posts: 11,535 (SuperPoster!) 14 1,318 hugs given	Jul 03, 2012 at 10:37 PM #2 I think it's all in your mind. I've never had sex, but couldn't you just hold off from reaching a climax until after you've made your partner climax?
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Trippin2.0 Legendary Member Since May 2010 Location: Cape Town South Africa Posts: 11,937 (SuperPoster!) 13 600 hugs given	Jul 04, 2012 at 12:06 AM #3 In my experience the opposite is true. The harder he is, the faster he cums. But... But.... I have zero experience with performance enhancers, so idk about that.
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Typo Elder Member Since Feb 2008 Location: In a Cloud Posts: 5,112 16 75 hugs given	Jul 04, 2012 at 09:56 AM #5 It is about having the self control to stop from cumming. My bf paces himself and slows down if he gets close to climax if we want to go Longer.
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laralula Member Member Since Jun 2012 Location: New Jersey Posts: 33 11 19 hugs given	Jul 04, 2012 at 11:09 AM #6 bighands how is the stamina in his tongue? lol... or get some toys... be creative
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LiteraryLark Crowned "The Good Witch" Member Since Jun 2009 Location: Wonderland Posts: 11,535 (SuperPoster!) 14 1,318 hugs given	Jul 06, 2012 at 09:52 AM #10 No, he's not an online friend, he's my best guy friend and I've known him for years. Ummmmm he's not mentally ill? It's called being a gentleman, pleasing the ladies before pleasing themselves. A LOT of men can hold themselves I don't see how that could be hard. My bff's bf can hold it too.
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Trippin2.0 Legendary Member Since May 2010 Location: Cape Town South Africa Posts: 11,937 (SuperPoster!) 13 600 hugs given	Jul 06, 2012 at 10:48 AM #11 DS, If you've never had sex, how are you sure A LOT, of men can hold it? I agree that Typo's bf has an effective technique, I've taken part in it, pacing does help, but then again, every person AND situation is different...
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LiteraryLark Crowned "The Good Witch" Member Since Jun 2009 Location: Wonderland Posts: 11,535 (SuperPoster!) 14 1,318 hugs given	Jul 06, 2012 at 11:45 AM #15 I don't believe a man doesn't have any control over his penis.
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unaluna Elder Harridan x-hankster Member Since Jun 2011 Location: Milan/Michigan Posts: 39,834 (SuperPoster!) 12 66.3k hugs given	Jul 06, 2012 at 12:49 PM #16 Good luck with that.
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unaluna Elder Harridan x-hankster Member Since Jun 2011 Location: Milan/Michigan Posts: 39,834 (SuperPoster!) 12 66.3k hugs given	Jul 06, 2012 at 01:10 PM #18 it's the journey, not the destination, right? i've had my journeys, i'm pretty much at my destination DS hasn't even started hers, so what can we do but wish her fun and good fortune!
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Trippin2.0 Legendary Member Since May 2010 Location: Cape Town South Africa Posts: 11,937 (SuperPoster!) 13 600 hugs given	Jul 06, 2012 at 01:16 PM #19 My sentiments exactly, you just managed to word it perfectly granted, I'm probly nowhere near the end of my journey, but there were way more twists and turns and missing road signs on mine. So I've covered a hellava lotta more ground than my peers... But yes, wish her well we do.
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