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Old 07-20-2012, 11:29 AM #1
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Hello everyone this is my first post, I hope you help me
I'm with my girlfriend for 5 months. We love each other, but still in our relationship something is going wrong. She doesn't have an orgasm in any position, however I've got problems with ejaculation, my orgasm's really fast, this is the reason? Can I do something about it ?
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Perform oral on her until she is on the brink of orgasm. Then switch to vaginal penetration. She should still continue to stimulate her clit. Maybe you can both orgasm together that way
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If she doesn't mind performing oral, she could perform oral on you first until you have your orgasm. Then, you perform oral on her as you recover. When you can get an erection again, if she hasn't had her orgasm yet, you can then try intercourse again.

You'll get her closer by performing oral on her and you'll probably be able to last longer since it'll be your second time in the same session.

Have fun and good luck!
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How old are you?
Quickly begun. Only five months ... take your time.

With her you had your first time? Have you previously did with others?
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I think foreplay is the key. I had this same problem but i tried to satisfy my girl with massage, kissing, oral and my fingers. Try it! Women love it
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Colleague above gave you good advice. Your woman can should like such things.
But I think she may still not think of a serious sex now.
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That's good idea, imthemaster.
My friend tell me about a really good course for men. Maybe can something like this would help you? I can't remember his name .. ;/
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hm, she doesn't want to try oral... this is the problem too...
about any courses, I found this in google "Gush Control - how to stop premature ejaculation"

Do you know anything about it?
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Go to a mens clinic they can give you some cream to put on
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Hi,
Is there is some kind of exercise or someway out to control ejaculation.
I had read somewhere like do masturbate regularly or on alternate days and and when the liqued start to ejacalte stop there... start again with a minute break.. doing this way one can control early ejaculation.

what you all say will this work.
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